Are We Still Living in a Day in Age Where Many Black Women Feel More Comfortable and Secure with White Guys Who Are Obsessed with "Blackness"?

If More and More Black Women Are Expressing Their Dislike of a White Guy's Race Oriented Games, Aren't These Guys Really Making Theirselves Look More and More like Asses Each Time They Behave This Way?

Lately in Bw/Wm (Black Women/White Men) interracial romance forums, I've been seeing more and more younger black women stating that they're really not too overly impressed or pleased with white guys who fawningly express there interracial interests being as such simply because they're specifically attracted to black skin or that they feel more compatible with a black woman's character or that they're attracted to this cliché "Strength" aspect. Years ago in these forums, this kind of superficial and mischaracterized stereotypical behavior seemed to be a requirement before many black women would even consider the possibilities of letting a white man get close to them.

I can remember thinking to myself, "A black woman's character, WTF kind of gross stereotypical generalization is that, and why the hell does it actually seem to work for some guys?" But in allowing myself to be brutally honest with what I was seeing, it really looked as if many white men weren't trusted unless they conformed to this standard. Let's be honest about this though, here online, we're only able to judge a person with as far as the limitations of the internet will allow for. Perhaps this kind of behavior would have been quickly shot down had the entire experience happened in person where we're able to use all our senses collectively to discern our like or dislike of people.

When I first acknowledged this behavior, I couldn't resist trying to figure out the deeper reasons why some people behaved this way. With the vastness and depth of racism in our society, it seems to me that many black women must have felt a greater sense of comfort, familiarity (with regards to "Posers") and security with a white guy who demonstrated such superficial behavior online. But as for why some of the guys behaved this way, I think that many of them were just acting in a way that they felt might make them look more appealing, trustable, and accessible to the black women they were performing for in order to win over their sexual attention.