How to Handle a Bothersome College Roommate

Social Etiquette Tips for the Residential College Student

As a college student living on campus, have you ever had one of those roommates you just wanted to kill by the end of the first week of school? You know, the one who eats your food while you're away at class or work, who plays video games at maximum volume until three o'clock in the morning, or who randomly invites twelve friends over for unexpected party during finals week? Odds are you have or know someone who has dealt with these and many other issues from a dormitory or apartment roommate. Although close living quarters with new, unfamiliar people can be stressful, uneasy and downright frightening, there are several socially acceptable ways to prevent or alleviate tension between yourself and a fellow roommate. And the great thing is you won't have to end up in jail for any of them.

According to www.tipdiva.com, "Communication is number one. The nature of living situations is such that most annoyances are easily resolved by talking." Begin by cordially introducing yourself to him or her on move-in day. Offer a handshake, give your name, and ask a friendly, personal question, such as, "Where are you from?" or "What is your major?" This will instantly let your roommate know you at least care about him or her on a general student-to-student level. This is the first connection that must be established and is the base on which all future relations will be built. So get off to a good start. After receiving their answers, reveal a few of your own: "I'm a Broadcast Journalism major. I transferred here from Alabama." These preliminary discussions will aid in the resolving of many future conflicts.