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Your Teenager Threatens to Run Away from Home - How to React

By Lisa Riggs, published Sep 05, 2008
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The teenage years are filed with high drama and the occasional heated argument and emotional outburst. Raging hormones as well as conflicts with friends and members of the opposite sex can make every teenager lose their composure from time to time. For many parents, hearing "I'm going to run away," is simply an empty threat expressed in the heat of the moment. Unfortunately, for many other parents, this indeed becomes their reality when their teen fails to come home one day and can't be found. Here are some suggestions on how to react if your teen threatens to run away.

First And Foremost, Take The Threat Seriously. It is very likely that this threat is simply a result of frustration and as soon as your teenager cools off, he or she will quickly forget about the idea of taking off for parts unknown. However, dismissing the threat so easily as teenage hormones and an immature way of reacting to conflict, may lead to the heartbreaking discovery that your child was very serious. If your child stomps off to their room after making this threat, give them a few minutes to calm down and then approach them for a very serious discussion.

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Where does a two year old get this idea? My daughter is now five and when she says it now I ask if she wants me to help her pack. Thank God she is still young and I know this will only work for now. Her pediatrician was amazed she started this so young and she was surprised when I told her all she watched was Disney and then Noggin. I didn't know she knew what it meant. lol

Posted on 09/10/2008 at 7:09:29 AM

 
This is a situation one should be prepared for.

Posted on 09/07/2008 at 6:09:53 PM

 
I so agree, especially about the taking them seriously part!

Posted on 09/05/2008 at 7:09:30 PM

 
My kids knew better than to threaten because I always told them I'd help them pack. It was my version of tough love. It worked. They never once threatened or tried. Although a ton of their friends ran away to our home. We always had anywhere from one to three extra kids in the house.

Posted on 09/05/2008 at 6:09:20 PM

 
:)

Posted on 09/05/2008 at 2:09:20 PM

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