The Lure of a Foreign Bride

Have you ever wondered why many single American men are now choosing to seek out foreign brides? I'm sure that you have and I'm sure that there are many questions rattling around in your head about the reasons behind this trend.

It's simple really, the American women that men come into contact with today are to judgmental, they are to independent, they are to self absorbed and they immediately judge a man by his outward appearance without getting to know the real person inside. In our society we have allowed ourselves to be far removed from things such as humility, shame, family unity, respect etc.

Let me further explain, in todays American society there is little or no shame in walking away from your marriage, there is little or no humility if you succumb to sexual desires before or during marriage, there is no fear of destroying the unity of your family and loosing the respect of your family and community.

It is a normal occurrence in our society for women to seek out sex long before marriage. I cant count the times that i have heard women comment that they would never marry without sleeping with the man first. The only problem with this kind of thinking is the fact that one lover will lead to another and then another and another and so on until she finally finds the man of her dreams and gets married only to discover twelve or eighteen months down the road that she isn't satisfied.

Now that she has discovered she isn't satisfied she begins the search, the search for a new lover, a better lover, a new prince charming.

Before you know it she has packed up and moved out, leaving her husband and possibly her children and even if she hasn't left the children she has ruined their lives. Most likely she will continue this behavior, over the years going from man to man until she is a bitter hateful woman living alone or tied down to someone she doesn't love. This kind of behavior is tolerated in our society and in a lot of case's encouraged by other women who themselves are unhappy with their bitter pitiful little lives.