How to Keep Your Family Close Even When You're Far Away

There are circumstances that lead many families to make the choice of living in separate cities or states apart. It could be a job offer, a college, spouse's job, or just a preference that leads families to live far apart. Regardless of the cause it is important to remain close at a distance. It will not be easy, and at times it will feel frustrating. At first when you move or your family moves you will possibly go through a grieving experience. Regardless of how much time was spent prior to the relocation with your family you will realize that just the comfort of knowing they were near by is now gone. It will more than likely cause a feeling of uneasiness. The separation could be easier if you have other family members in your area that will still be there for support, family dinners, etc. If you are the one that moved away from family and have possibly moved to a new state or city where there are no other relatives that will be a tough transition for you.

I have experienced living apart from my family on a few separate occasions for many different reasons. I find myself in this situation again as well. My siblings and parents moved to Florida last year and my husband and I moved to North Carolina due to job relocation.

There are some things that help ease the distance and can keep your relationship close. Hopefully if you are experiencing this you will find some of these suggestions helpful.

First thing is first. Find a long distance plan that allows you unlimited long distance calls. There are several out there. You can also try to switch to the Voip technology that allows unlimited long distance calling. If you do not have a land line it would be a good idea to evaluate your cellular provider's phone plan and get the best plan for your needs.

Set up a web page (I suggest www.myfamily.com) designated to share pictures, family news, add events such as birthdays and it also has its own e-mail and chat.

Depending on how much technology driven your family is I would recommend a web cam on both ends so you can have live chats. That would especially be special for the children in your house if you have any.