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By Shamontiel, published Dec 29, 2006
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I read an article in my college newspaper, the DePaulia, a month or so ago that really disturbed me. I think it was the last line "I have some more homeless people I need to ignore" that got me the most. The whole article talked about how this guy did not want to deal with salespeople on the street, homeless people, and those who are trying to save the environment. It's rather sad when our country is at war; and murders, rapes, and poverty happen daily, and this guy found it more aggravating to talk about a man who sells Streetwise newspapers outside of a Dominicks grocery store.

In a world where we feel like two bags of chips for $4 is a sale and one cup of hot chocolate is almost the same price, it amazes me that so many people snub those who really do need money. I even have to reflect on my own monetary actions. I come to work everyday and grab a 75¢ small bag of Cheez-its, grab a bag of Cheetos while I'm in night class, and might grab a gourmet hot chocolate at Borders on the way there, but have caught myself rolling my eyes at one particular Streetwise guy that I see in front of Starbucks on my way to work. He shoves newspapers in peoples' faces and no matter how many he has, he always belts out "I only have to sell one more." I think he'd be a great salesman as pushy as he is. Although he annoys me, I have to self-reflect. If I can blow so much money on food I really don't need, why not help out someone who does? By the next corner, I feel guilty and drop some change into the cup of someone who needs it. If I can spend $5 on junk food, I can afford to give someone $1.

Do Homeless People Make You Feel Guilty?

In a world where we feel like two bags of chips for $4 is a sale and one cup of hot chocolate is almost the same price, it amazes me that so many people snub those who really do need money.

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Takeaways
  • Chip Everett, a staff writer for the DePaulia, states that he ignores homeless people.
  • Chip Everett states that "if you're not on the corner handing out useful things like free unused condoms, morning-after pills, booze or are affiliated with the DePaul Blue Crew, some type of fraternity or sorority, you do not belong."
  • Will Smith starred in a movie called "The Pursuit of Happyness" about a homeless man who went from sleeping in a bathroom to working with a million dollar company.
Did You Know?
In a recent study, there are 38.2 million people (including 14 million children) who are starving to the point of death.
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Deez, check the Takeaways. Yes, I saw the movie, and it was a very good movie too. There are so many people who live paycheck to paycheck, including me. If not for my family, I could easily be in the same position, and I never forget that. I'm glad to see you survived the possibility of it almost happening to you twice. Jennifer, I see what you're saying, but I wonder how many of those people were drug addicts or alcoholics before they were homeless, or did they turn to that habit to take away the stress of being homeless. Pretty much everybody I know who turned to alcohol or drugs did it to escape reality. I don't feel the homeless should be any different. However, I do see what you're saying, and I make a point of giving more food/clothes than money.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 9:11:00 PM

 
I like and agree with Jennifer Thompson's message. I do not feel guilty. I work very hard close to 50 hours a week. I devote a lot of time to helping those less fortunate. That does not include handing them money directly. I do support some charities that help homeless people. Seeing so many on the street near where I work in Boston makes me count my blessings and work harder for my family, myself and for everyone.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 8:11:00 PM

 
Did you catch Will Smith in "The Pursuit of Happiness"? What a heart wrenching movie. The people who are a paycheck away from being homeless are the ones that really get me. I was there (employed but homeless) twice in my life. If it wasn't for the help of some good people my journey would have been a lot harder. Thank God for those that are willing to help their fellow man out.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 7:11:00 PM

 
OK - I did volunteer work at a local charity that worked to bring homeless people to self sufficiency. i learned that 70% of those on the street like that are drug addicts or alcoholics. do NOT give them money - you know where it will go? if you want to help, carry some plastic bags w/ you that have things like granola bars and other non-perishable food in them. also things like deordorant and toothbrushes are good. NO mouthwash. it has alchohol in it.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 6:11:00 PM

 
Oh, as for your question about going to third-world countries, no. At my current full-time job, co-workers have told me about things that they've seen while traveling to India, and I know several people who have visited Africa. The stories they come back with sound terrible. In America, we're killing each other for stupid, racist, and bigoted reasons, but in third-world countries, there are people who are killing each other just to survive. The stories I've been told are horrific, and I grudgingly have to admit that those are the perks of America. As much as I complain about issues here, I can't deny that we do have it better than many other areas which are so far off in poverty to the point of being unbearable.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

 
Deez, I'm almost stunned that we agreed on this article. Wow! :-) Anyway, I definitely agree with you on offering food instead of money. The issues that Dawn Thompson discussed is what drives me insane though. The people who really don't need the money for food or are using it for their own habits disappoint me because when someone is legitimately homeless and really is hungry or is looking for somewhere safe to lay their heads, I'm looking at them skeptically. When charities get ridiculously picky (such as the bed situation with the Salvation Army), that makes it that much worse for people who really do want to donate and try to give back. Thank you for saying I have a good heart. I'm still stunned, but I'll take it.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

 
Awesome! This article hit home for me as I have donated to as well as snubbed some charities. It is hard to know which ones are the good guys so I rely on my gut. We just adopted a child for Christmas through an organization that helps out needy families during the holidays. I feel good about this one as the children do not ask for much, and it can make all the difference to them on Christmas morning. Without hope there would be no tomorrow for these kids.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 2:11:00 PM

 
Shamontiel, have you ever traveled to third world countries? Man oh Man, talk about rampant homelessness and poverty. Thank God we live here. Sometimes when I hear people complaining about how ruff they have it or when I'm down and out and having a little self pity, I think about those people in the third world and I know We have it pretty good. 5 of 5 Stars BTW.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

 
Shamontiel, I really liked this article. Once in a while when a person asks me for money to buy him/herself food, I'll tell them that I wont give them the money but if they want to come inside the store or restaurant I'll buy them whatever food they want. Sometimes they say thanks and they get the meal and sometimes they say no thanks and walk away. The only reason I do this is to make sure I'm not enabling them to buy booze or drugs, plus it is safer than just opening up your wallet out on the street. I know you and I rarely agree on much but I do feel you have a good heart.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

 
You offer some good points. However, I am not moved to feel guilty. No, I'm not heartless. But, I've worked hard for what I have. I understand that there are people who work and do not have what I have just as I don't have what some rich people have. But do I go around begging rich people to feel guilty for what they have and give it to me? No! I understand that some homeless people are mentally incapable of holding down a job and taking care of themselves. But there are those who are perfectly capable of doing so. But instead they try to "feed" off our emotions. How do you weed out the ones who cannot help themselves? I have gone to McDonalds and gotten some food for people standing by the roadside with signs. Some are appreciative and say "thank You"; some grab it and may offer you a few choice words to go along with it. It is a touchy subject.

Posted on 11/18/2007 at 6:11:00 AM

 
Scott, I don't know how you gathered that my efforts make me feel better than the homeless. I called in sick a week ago and gave a man the lunch I was going to eat at work, and although he smiled and said "What a nice gesture" to me, all I kept thinking as I walked to the train was what was this guy going to do for his next meal. I feel temporarily good the way that man was temporarily fed. For me, it's one and the same. I can't afford to help all homeless people all the time, but if I had the money, I know I would. But I can't make another person see it my way, so I'll just say I respect your views, although I don't agree with them. Ptosis, excellent point. Melissa, thank you.

Posted on 11/17/2007 at 6:11:00 PM

 
What a lovely article. It really makes one think.

Posted on 11/17/2007 at 5:11:00 PM

 
You try living on the street long enough and you'll go nuts also. Longer you stay out, the stranger you get. Most are without housing for a few months and are "invisible" becuase they look 'normal'. Everybody want to get rid of the visible homeless. The ones that stink from 50 yards away. Called animals by the homeless but the housed public groups these sub-humans with anybody who makes the rounds at shelters, friends and family to sleep.

Posted on 11/17/2007 at 5:11:00 PM

 
To finish my cut off statement: Your efforts are honorable, but they probably help you (feel good about yourself) more than they help the homeless.

Posted on 11/17/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

 
Robert, please elaborate on that Republican issue in the '80s. I'd thought about vets, unemployed people, and people who had hard luck from marriages, but up until this article, I hadn't really considered those who are mentally challenged the way quite a few of you all did. How do you feel they should've dealt with that issue then? Do you think it would've decreased the problem now or just alternated who is homeless?

Posted on 11/17/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

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