How to Retire Without Really Retiring

Marilyn K. Smith
Marilyn K. Smith
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Go Part-time And Enjoy Every Minute of It!

Tired of the stress from that job you've had most of your adult life? Can't stop working entirely due to financial obligations? Do you have adequate health insurance through your husband's work and do
n't depend on your full-time employment for that benefit? Well, I have a plan that has worked really well for me. I am 57 years young! I enjoy being out with folks and enjoy working but I do not enjoy "having" to be at a certain place at a certain time. I also do not like being obligated to a company like a line in an old country song expresses, "I've sold my soul to the company store."

Here's my story: Over a period of about four weeks, my long-time employer of 18 years, begin making more and more demands on me. I found myself unable to keep up with the amount of work suddenly being loaded on my shoulders. This really frustrated me as I had always prided myself on doing my job duties thoroughly and finishing on time. I could not understand what or why this was happening. (I found out later the company was in financial trouble due to mismanagement of funds and were trying desperately to get rid of a number of employees who had "been loyal" but were now making over a certain amount and they could no longer keep them--and of course, no one tells you the real story). One of those "loyalists" was me! I was being pressured and hassled daily, even hourly, by my supervisor who had been a so called "friend" but now resembled a piranha. During this time I also experienced the death of a close family member and that supervisor took advantage of my emotional state. I was berated in front of others for no reason and finally, when I could take it no longer and realized that my health was in great danger, I tearfully resigned.

  • Tired of the stress from that job you've had most of your adult life but can't stop working?
  • I was being pressured and hassled daily by a supervisor that suddenly resembled a prianha.
  • Our family made some decisions that helped improve our situation financially.
 
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To Sheryl, and all of you who have commented and have experienced these type circumstances, saying "no" to a unhealthy job situation is not the end of your life. There is so much more to you as a person than what you do at a job or even in a career. You can do other things! The main thing is not to get depressed and give up. You can learn new things at any age and you probably know how to accomplish more goals than you realize. We have a God-given ability within us to be creative and to achieve. He will show us where we need to be at all stages of life. If we realize how valuable we are to Him and how much He loves us, we can put ourselves in His hands and decide not to worry or fret. He will take care of us because of His great love for us! All of us have great potential in the life we've been given.

Posted on 10/20/2008 at 5:10:30 AM

I have so experienced the more- and- more- demands like on your first page, by a very young upstart who thought everyone should be a workaholic like her. I ended up waking up nauseous and curled up in a little ball crying. I thought, at my age i didn't need it. My husband and I finally decided I could stay home and write for a while!!

Posted on 10/19/2008 at 11:10:42 PM

Great article! Thanks for the encouraging words to all who struggle over their job and financial situation. I can relate to alot of what you shared.

Posted on 10/03/2008 at 5:10:25 PM

Another resourceful grandma story....good for you.

Posted on 10/03/2008 at 1:10:59 PM

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