Sex and Older Men

What You May Not Know Might Surprise You

I love doing my own surveys since they allow me to dig deeper into the brains of people who don't mind me doing my little experiments on them. I recently asked a group of older men what they wish that their spouses knew about them and sex that they felt too ashamed to tell them and the one response that kept coming up was that older men require stimulation to become aroused.

There are many ways to arouse a man but younger men are a lot different from older men since they can become aroused by simply seeing a picture of a naked lady. An older man made need a little help down there in the nether regions to get his ship a-sailing.

There are many ways to stimulate a man and you shouldn't feel ashamed if your many no longer become aroused by looking at you, he may require your touch or his own to actually get it going.

During my own research I also asked women of older men what they wished could happen during sex and most of the women said that their husbands don't seem to respond to them being naked anymore. After doing some studying and finding out about older men and arousal I told these women and they said that it actually boosted their sex life since now they understand that it isn't them but age that was causing this.

A relationship between spouses should always be open but sometimes women are too ashamed to ask and when they do, men are too ashamed to tell them what is wrong. No one likes to feel like they are getting older or that they are no longer attractive anymore.

The next time that your spouse doesn't get aroused by you exposing your body, why not offer him a hand? For the men who have a wife that tells him that she doesn't feel attractive because of this; why not cuddle with her, have the discussion about the problem, and then show her how much you love her and that you are very attracted to her?

Sex isn't all there is to a marriage but sex should also be an important part of it since it can keep your relationship alive and remind the other person that you still find them attractive.

Some couples are just to embarrassed to talk to the other spouse even though it may be something as simple as this and may not even be your fault.