So You Want to "Divorce" Your Parents--A Minor's Guide to Emancipation in California

Are your parents unreasonable? Perhaps they are abusive. Maybe they are emotional, illogical wreaks and you just want them to get out of your life. Perhaps they squander your money. Maybe they interfere with your physical, emotional, mental, financial stability. Emancipation may be for
 you.

Firstly, what does it mean to become "emancipated?" Well, it's a legal way for minors to become adults before they reach the age of majority, which in California is 18. If you become emancipated, your parents cease to have custody and control of you. You can do things like get medical care, apply for a work permit, sign up for school or college, and live where you want to without your parents' permission. Amazing, I know.

So, reader, you must be itching with desire to know how to become emancipated. In California, there are three ways to achieve emancipation.

The first way is to get married. In California, in order to get married under the age of 18, you need permission from your parents and the courts.

The second way to become emancipated is to join the armed forces. There are two prerequisites for this option. You first need permission from your parents. The armed forces must also accept you.

The third and last way to become emancipated is to get a declaration from a judge. In order to get a declaration, you must prove the following: (1) you are at least 14 years old (2) you don't want to live with your parents and your parents don't have an objection (3) you must show fiscal responsibility (4) you can financially and legally support yourself (5) you must show that emancipation would be beneficial for you.

This how-to guide provides instructions for the third option.

You first need to fill out your "Petition for Declaration of Emancipation of Minor, Order Prescribing Notice, Declaration of Emancipation, and Order Denying Petition [form MC-300]." This form is just a formal confirmation of the 4 requirements I outlined above.

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my parents are always abusing me, hitting me, critizing me, get under my skin and get too involved in my life. They're going to call the police on me beacuse they can stand me, so i think thi is the best option to get away from them. Hopefully it works

Posted on 07/02/2009 at 9:07:51 AM

My mom and I never see eye to eye on anything she doesnt understand what i feel everyday my dads a screw up and because of him I cant trust anyone not even myself sometimes. At times I really wish that I had the guts to kill myself, I almost think itd be easier than feeling like I have nobody in this world that cares about me and respects me. Then my mom just makes me feel worse by yelling at me and lecturing me about shit shes told me dozens of times. I really just cant stand the way she treats me, like im another one of her incompetent workers. What should I do? PLEASE help me.

Posted on 06/11/2009 at 12:06:57 PM

i need to get away from my family. they are destructive and because of them and their ways, i have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and depression i have commited suicide a lot of times and all they do is cry promise to change and go back to living their own lives. all day i am locked up. i go to school and den straight home to my room. ive gotten really fat and i hate myslef more than ever. im starting to cut myself. everyday i try to kill myself but all they do is tell me to stop ruining their lives. i have to get out of here. please help me someone. i just want to have some sort of foster family or something till i finish high school. am almost done with 11 th grade. some one please help me and contact me please. my email is xixshaiyaxix@yahoo.com. ty.

Posted on 06/01/2009 at 5:06:01 PM

love it!it is just what i nead

Posted on 05/29/2009 at 11:05:09 AM

Hey you should never think about sucide I did and got in trouble

Posted on 04/15/2009 at 11:04:38 AM

i suggest ur better of not cutting urself=]

Posted on 04/06/2009 at 12:04:01 PM

Today was a great day in history for me and my parents. My little brother as epilepsy and is 17. My parents divorced when i was 7 and i didn't see much of my father. Well my mom decided to let my brother go and see my father for the first time in a long time. My older sister lives with my father and they all smoke pot. My stupid father decides that he wants to get my epileptic brother stoned. He told my mom when he got home. Now my mom is calling the cops on my father. my older sister has threatened suicide, and i hate my whole family. i disown everyone. lucky for me i moved out of my house last year and graduated high school, i want to move far away and never speak to them. My mom is and idiot my father is stupid. i hate everyone and want to be left alone. i fear for my brother and feel like suicide myself. but im not stupid like the rest of them.

Posted on 04/04/2009 at 8:04:34 PM

heyi would love to divorce my parents both my parents are ass wholes and i cant even concetrate in school t5ot save my life cause i hate them so much if anyone feels the same message me on dcohen96@optonline.net or im me at ratshd@aim.com

Posted on 03/26/2009 at 2:03:54 PM

I can't stand my mother anymore. Ever since she lost her job she constantly has her head up my butt. she accuses me of lying to her and yells at me constantly when I haven't done anything. She grounded me for 3 weeks because I broke up with a guy that she just adored. She takes my money that I work 6 days a week for to pay her bills. She complains about not having a job when she doesnt' even put the effort into finding one. I honestly think she is jealous that I'm trying to make something of my life. I mean I'm paying for my college tuition to Towson and all my insurance and phone bills. She acts like my sister is the golden child and can do nothing wrong. When my sister comes home drunk and high almost every night and she doesnt do anything about it. And she threatens to throw me out of the house constantly. I've run away twice because I'm completely miserable. I'm done with her remarks about me being stupid and dumb when I'm a straight a student. It's bad when you find yourself wishi

Posted on 03/11/2009 at 11:03:42 AM

My mother is so abusive to but not towards my brother which is bullshit and i can't take it. So i'm goin to live with my older sister.

Posted on 03/06/2009 at 8:03:53 AM

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