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Are You Ready for Your Last Day on Earth

By Alban Mehling, published Sep 29, 2008
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We never know when our last day on earth will come. I guess unless you are in a war zone or being treated by Hospice you don't even have a clue. I have witnessed a few folks that must have had a premonition. Take as an example my Mom.

Mom worked her usual "Half Day," 12 hours in our family restaurant, went to a Polka Party, and went home to drop over dead sitting on the potty. Now Mom was never too good about cleaning off her desk. In fact we only presumed there was a desk holding all those papers off the floor. This day she cleaned off her desk and waxed the top. Mom would begin Christmas shopping in January. Most years she wrapped gifts on Christmas eve and forgot to put name tags on the packages. This year the packages were wrapped in October and all all of them had tags on them. I am happy to know Mom died doing the things she loved most working, dancing, and preparing for Christmas.

Dad had other concepts of fun. His last day he prepared a meal for his "Outing Club" buddies, played cards till the wee hours of the morning, went home to drop over in the hallway halfway between his bed and the bathroom. He too went to his better place doing the things he enjoyed, entertaining his friends, winning at Gin Rummy, drinking too much and telling tall tales. Interesting note...Dad's Gin Rummy victim whispered to me at the funeral "If I had known he was gonna die I would have written him a check for my losses." always a joker even in death.,, that was Dad's pals even to this day.

Dad's last story was about three Rabi's making a wake visit. They talked among themselves about what they would like folks to say when they were in the casket. The first said "I want folks to remember my sermons. Perhaps even voice how one of my better efforts changed lives." The second was a bit more folksy "I would want folks to remember my examples of practicing my Faith. Perhaps even remarking "He didn't need a sermon just watch how he lived." The third was a bit of a pixie "When folks visit my casket I want them to look into my face and shout "He's Moving!" That was Dad's sense of humor.

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I have my ticket to my eternal destination (courtesy of Jesus) but I have made a request at the local funeral home. I want to have the Glamour Shots people come in to do my hair and makeup, so people will look in my coffin and say, "Oh, wasn't she beautiful? Who was she?"

Posted on 10/06/2008 at 11:10:21 AM

 
all my ducks are in a row.... hehehehee

Posted on 10/01/2008 at 1:10:05 PM

 
Good article.

Posted on 10/01/2008 at 1:10:46 AM

 
Great article....I am glad your parents were doing what they loved. I don't want to have to be hooked up either, just take me on to my eternal home that I have been promised. I will see you there one Alban.

Posted on 09/30/2008 at 9:09:39 AM

 
Great post! I love your dad's sense of humor. Your coffee cup message is excellent.

Posted on 09/30/2008 at 6:09:52 AM

 
I like Carl's Bucket List.

Posted on 09/30/2008 at 5:09:50 AM

 
i like this, i'd rather go happy then hooked to tubes or in a coma. thanks for sharing

Posted on 09/29/2008 at 1:09:12 PM

 
I have been promised I will go to a better place after my time here. Thank You fer commenting. Mizpah. ;-}}>

Posted on 09/29/2008 at 10:09:10 AM

 
Excellent article reminding us of our mortality. The other question is...do you know where you're going?

Posted on 09/29/2008 at 10:09:29 AM

 
good piece

Posted on 09/29/2008 at 10:09:03 AM

 
Thanks for the motivation to get things done:)

Posted on 09/29/2008 at 9:09:51 AM

 
Check your Bucket List.

Posted on 09/29/2008 at 9:09:34 AM

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