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What Life is like with a Severe Disability

By George Kouri, published Jan 13, 2007
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Have you ever said to yourself I wonder what it would be like to live life with a severe disability? I'm sure you answered yourself I can't imagine. As I'm sitting here writing this I wish I could say the same. I was diagnosed with Dubowitz congenital muscular dystrophy around the age of three. From the time I was born my mother says she knew something was wrong but it wasn't until I was brought home and had to be rushed back to the hospital shortly after, that anybody knew for sure. Throughout my infancy I was prone to stop breathing for no reason at all and was so weak that I had trouble closing my eyelids to sleep. Doctors told my parents not to let me cry if at all possible for fear I wouldn't be able to be resuscitated.

As I got older my health improved to the point where I wouldn't stop breathing for no reason at all and at the stage where children are usually pulling up on stuff and learning to walk I was still learning to sit up by myself. Still even when I could sit up by myself the least little thing could knock me off balance. My lack of balance led to several concussions which ultimately led to minor brain damage. The only side effect were the migraines.

Still with all of the problems I had I never really felt different and I guess I owe a lot to my family and friends for that. Even though I wasn't able to walk I learned to use my legs to push me around and scoot across the floor moving backwards.

What Life is like with a Severe Disability

A picture of me and Tom savini.

Credit: Namon Kouri

Copyright: Namon Kouri

Takeaways
  • I was diagnosed with Dubowitz congenital muscular dystrophy around the age of three.
  • That is probably the worst experience of being disabled, having your mother and sisters wiping your butt is so embarrassing.
  • I wasn't really looking forward to having a long life anyways my life expectancy was up.
Did You Know?
I was diagnosed with Dubowitz congenital muscular dystrophy. The main cause being that I was born with staph pneumonia.
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I am some what disabled; have a hard time with my balance; have memory loss and seizure's; and, I have such a hard time; so I understand; but, you know what, there is someone that is always a little worse than we are. I say hang in there; the LORD has helped you all those years; and, me.

Posted on 04/28/2008 at 9:04:18 AM

 
George you are a wonderful and brave person. Even in spite of your disability you traveled thus far, great going. George take courage, History is filled with such courageous people who faced their disabilities with boldness and achieved many things in their life. You're one among them you've proved the adage correct, "Disability is not a liability" Keep going, Trust in God, He will take you through. Love and prayer. Philip

Posted on 04/14/2008 at 12:04:55 PM

 
You are stronger than most everyone on earth, congratulations for being so determined and serving as a great example!

Posted on 03/31/2008 at 9:03:07 AM

 
Man! What a tough character you are, and what spirit! Remember God made you for a purpose and He is always there to help when no one else will.

Posted on 03/29/2008 at 5:03:14 PM

 
I'd have to say that you are a real trooper. While I am blind and have chronic illness, which makes me dependent on others to a certain degree, I could never imagine being dependent on someone to that degree. You have alot of courage, and it is wonderful that you should publish such a piece because you make people aware of the challenges that come with having a severe disability so they can hopefully have more compassion toward those who are disabled. Way to go and keep up the good work. this gets more than a five rating. And, for your church to disown you--they really need God. that is not how Jesus would have conducted himself. This is actually very contrary to how the Bible says to do things. No wonder so many are against religion. I can't say I blame them. I mean, they don't exactly paint the best picture of Christianity.

Posted on 03/28/2008 at 5:03:24 AM

 
George . . . I just read your article and I'm so amazed with your ability to handle everything - you are an inspiration to all with disabilities. Debby

Posted on 03/27/2008 at 10:03:25 PM

 
This is such a touching story! I am disabled, my husband is disabled, and we have a son that is 19 and very severely autistic, (does not even talk!), even with all our disabilities, I cannot even imagine what a day in your life must be like! Even with our disabilities, we have it so much easier than you do. This was a wonderul article, filled with inspiration! God Bless you always!

Posted on 03/26/2008 at 6:03:52 PM

 
Thank you for a very frank article. An entire year later and readers are being inspired by you.

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 11:03:07 AM

 
George, I am sorry for your hardships. I am deaf so I know how it is to have a disability. Fortunately, you have family, but I do not. My parents ended up giving me to social services when I was 16 because they didn't want a deaf child and couldn't bare it. Be thankful you have family and love around you. The Lord is with you. Thanks for letting me share.

Posted on 03/17/2008 at 4:03:15 PM

 
wow. amazing article.. thanks for sharing it. i'm glad you met the love of your life and reconciled with your family.

Posted on 03/11/2008 at 10:03:52 PM

 
Hi mary thats cool that you found me is there is any way i could contact you where we could talk.

Posted on 03/09/2008 at 10:03:57 PM

 
You're amazing and inspiring. Never give up! Thanks for the article.

Posted on 03/06/2008 at 7:03:07 PM

 
George, I am your cousin from Dallas. Your grandfather, Namon George Kouri I was my mother's brother. You are such an inspiration. I am a kidney dialysis patient and must have dialysis three times a week. But I do not let it stop me. I teach full time and have a full life. God bless you. I wish we could meet. Thank you for being a great person.

Posted on 02/26/2008 at 1:02:26 PM

 
You're a very brave person!

Posted on 02/21/2008 at 3:02:05 PM

 
I have learned that being disabled is just one more thing to deal with in a day. It appears as though you have as well. I don't know why I stumbled on this piece today but with my back injury (and topping that is my getting sick every time I turn around with another case of bronchitis this past year) I have had a tough time at times not saying the "poor-me"s and looking at what I do have. Thanks for reminding me that there is still tomorrow and it is very possible to get past the limitations that your body puts on you and still make life good. ~Tamee

Posted on 01/03/2008 at 5:01:36 PM

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