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The Downside to Homeschooling

By Moonflower Child, published Dec 28, 2006
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To every opinion, there is an opposite side. While some see homeschooling as a definite plus to teaching children, many things about it can also keep back a child in various ways. Below are several ways that homeschooling is a hinder on a child and their learning. There are many, many things that children can learn at home only, along with many things that children can only learn through public or private institutions. While this list is incomplete, as with each person they can come up with their own reason why this home schooling is bad, it is a good idea of what some children may miss out on because of homeschooling.

Social Interaction

This is the big one. Children, just like adults, need socialization. It's not a maybe in the least. Children need to socialize with their own age groups or they won't know how to react to these situations when they are around others. It teaches them to literally see eye to eye and above all else, how to share with those their own age. These are lessons that can only be learned properly hands on. Yes, socializing with adults can be very beneficial, since people don't always talk with solely their own age group. Children need to learn how to speak to those who aren't their parents. Children also learn how to be children with others, by playing and utilizing their imaginations. Something parents can only minimally do at home - even with other children. This also includes being in sports in school where teamwork is taught and utilized.

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Actually, research has demonstrated that socialization is not usually a problem for homeschooled children. I have 5 siblings who were homeschooled, as was I. Two of my brothers and I graduated valedictorian from Internet school. They are currently working on music degrees. One of them intends to do a master's degree in music. I am currently working on a Master's of Nursing. My sister went through the same program as we did; she works in a day care, is completing her early childhood education diploma, and just got engaged to her boyfriend. My two youngest brothers are still in school; one plans to become a professional musician, the other is considering working in agriculture. We are all very well-adjusted and nobody has had any seriously socially deviant behaviour.

Posted on 10/13/2008 at 10:10:52 PM

 
For those who sent notes, I know this is 'one sided' and is in no way MY opinion on the subject. =) My child is home schooled. Obviously, if I felt this way I'd not be having her homeschooled. (unless I was very odd :P)

Posted on 11/19/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

 
An alternative option (if you're having difficulty teaching certain subjects) is to enroll your child in an online school. My parents chose this option for our family because my mother never took physics and didn't feel she'd be able to teach it, plus they wanted their children to get the government "piece of paper" (i.e. diploma). Students can be enrolled full-time as we were, or part-time to do only specific subjects. Either way, they still do their schoolwork at home on their own time. The school that I attended had a graduation open to full-time student graduates and their guests (I gave the valedictorian address at my graduation, as a matter of fact) and a year-end celebration open to all families.

Posted on 11/19/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

 
It seems your points are well stated, yet you have misrepresented homeschooling. Being home schooled my whole life, I know from experience what it is like. I am socialized beyond belief. I don't have a single day during the week where I'm not doing something with my friends or other adults. I am not socially stunted. I am not under taught. My social calender is as full as it could be. I respect your view. I just don't agree with it. Well written and well presented. sincerely, A Well socialized and educated home schooled senior

Posted on 03/28/2007 at 11:03:00 AM

 
From speaking to parents who homeschool in my district, the majority of them felt that they were severely under-socialized. That's why I've stated it is towards my school district. In this small farm area, yes, kids can be under-socialized. Cities? I imagine they can be over.

Posted on 01/27/2007 at 6:01:00 PM

 
Moreover, homeschooling associates do often host graduations and dances, so that homeschooled kids miss out...meaning that missing those aren't cons of homeschooling either, as homeschooling doesn't mean you have to miss out on those things.

Posted on 01/27/2007 at 6:01:00 PM

 
A lot of homeschooling parents feel their children are oversocialized. Most of them include their children in a number of activities from sports to scouts to music lessons. Very few homeschooled children are unsocialized, so listing it as a con is misleading.

Posted on 01/27/2007 at 6:01:00 PM

 
Just to avoid any further 'one sided' comments and mails I've gotten. There are TWO articles. One is pro and one is con. Just so I can hopefully stop the negative remarks I've received in note after note from people.

Posted on 01/02/2007 at 9:01:00 PM

 
Just wanted to say that I definitely thought this was a one sided article. Having been homeschooled I have to say that it completely depends on a lot of different factors. There are a bunch of programs (CO-OPs)that offer not only lots of time to socialize, but also offer classes that are harder to take such as chemistry, biology, gym classes, etc,etc. The lessons can be very structured. You can calculate exactly how much material has to be covered to finish your class work the same time as everyone in public schools, or you can figure out how to double up. Depending on the program you go with, you can have a graduation with a class.(I was enrolled in Christian Liberty Academy and totally had the option of walking across the stage)I had report cards and tests just like everyone else. Also, there are too many tutors out there to use the excuse that your parents aren't good in that particular subject. When my brother had trouble with Algebra and my mom and him butted heads she sent him to

Posted on 01/02/2007 at 9:01:00 PM

 
Just a little side note for those who sent me messages disagreeing - in our school district (which is what I'm basing it on, moreso than other place) they frown on 'home schooled' students attenting functions. Not that all schools do this, but it CAN be a downside. Not fully is. So please refrain from calling me 'stupid' and 'ignorant' in notes, thank you.

Posted on 12/29/2006 at 8:12:00 AM

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