Is it Love or Lust? A Quiz to Help You Distinguish Between the Two in Your New Relationship

1. How often during the day do you think about him?

A. I think about him every minute of every day

B. I think about him when I see or hear something that reminds me of him.

C. He's always in the back of my mind...

D. Out of sight, out of mind!

2. Does thinking about him get in the way of your daily activities?

A. No because all my daily activities revolve around him

B. Sometimes my thoughts distract me, but I don't get too far off track.

C. When I think about him I want to do a better job and be a better person.

D. Not at all.

3. Do you get ornery and depressed when you go more than a few hours without seeing or talking to him?

A. Of course! Every minute I'm not with him is not worth living.

B. No, the longer we've been apart the easier it is for me to focus on my day.

C. I miss him, but we are usually sending each other short messages throughout the day if we can't get together, so it doesn't ever feel like we've been apart for a long time.

D. If I'm not with him, I'm usually with someone else.

4. What do your friends think of him?

A. They avoid being around us when we're together. In fact, they are starting to avoid me when we're apart now too...

B. They like him but don't really know him that well.

C. They all really like him and they usually invite him along when we're all getting together.

D. My friends haven't really met him yet.

5. What do his friends think of you?

A. I don't know. We don't spend time with his friends any more. They must be really busy lately.

B. He tells me that they like me, but we don't all get together very often.

C. They must like me because they invite both of us to hang out with them.

D. I wouldn't know. I don't think I've ever met any of his friends.

6. How do you spend your time when you are together?

A. Kissing...or more!

B. Go to dinner, see a movie, make out for a while...the usual routine.

C. We do everything! We love sports, movies, dancing, talking...and the kissing is great, too.

D. We make out. Why else would we be together?

7. How do you spend your time when you are apart?

A. I think about how long it will be before I see him again and obsess about what he's doing and who he's with if he isn't with me.

B. I spend it doing whatever needs to be done to catch up on life.