How Should I Propose? Tips for a Man Who is Ready to Pop the Question

By PolyQ, published Jan 03, 2007
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A marriage proposal is one of those pivotal moments in a person's life, both for the man and the woman, and therefore, a marriage proposal should be memorable for both, and in a good way! Of course, the expectation is that when a man pops the question, his lady will say yes, and that alone is memorable enough, but this article will discuss some of the more creative ways men can propose and make it a memorable and romantic occasion.

Of course, it would be remiss not to mention that it is perfectly acceptable for a woman to propose too, but since this is not necessarily the norm, this article will focus mostly on the man proposing to the woman, but for the most part, many of these suggestions will hold true for either men or women who choose to propose.

In this article, we are going to assume that you have already thought about the practical aspects of a marriage proposal, such as whether or not you and your partner are compatible for life and love, if you both are moving in the same direction, whether or not you both want children, and other mundane life things that must be taken into consideration. Additionally, we are also going to assume that you truly love your partner and she loves you, and that you are actually ready to marry and spend the rest of your life together before you propose.

If all these things are taken care of, now you are ready to go about the 'how' of proposing. Let's look at some suggestions below.

Romance

A marriage proposal should be romantic, but what your definition of romance is compared to hers might be two different things. While you are the one asking the question, and you have probably put a lot of thought into the proposal itself, she is the one who has probably dreamed of this day her entire life - and it's up to you to make it as romantic for her as possible! Of course, no pressure or anything.

How Should I Propose? Tips for a Man Who is Ready to Pop the Question

A Wedding Table

Credit: Kirk Farmer

Copyright: Kirk Farmer

Takeaways
  • Sometimes when things don't go exactly as planned, your proposal will be even more memorable.
  • Don't stress over your proposal, because if you truly love her, that's all she will care about.
  • Remember, a marriage proposal should only come when you are truly ready to share the rest of your life with someone.
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If you are looking for specific ideas for popping the question, I think Michael Webb's ebook -- The Romantic's Guide to Popping the Question cant be beat. The ideas are superb.

Posted on 01/09/2007 at 7:01:00 PM

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