Unschooling: What is it and is it Right for You?

"The most important thing any teacher has to learn, not to be learned in any school of education I ever heard of, can be expressed in seven words: Learning is not the product of teaching. Learning is the product of the activity of learners." - John Holt, Growing Without Schooling Magazine
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There is a small but growing group within the homeschooling spectrum called unschooling. For many this radical style is a mystery, but for some it is as obvious as the curiosity in a child. Sometimes called child-led learning, this method is based on the books by author John Holt. An educator himself, Holt spent many years studying the way children learn and writing several insightful books on the subject. Before his death in 1985, Holt had nine books and a magazine to his credit. Two more books were written after his death from notes and letters of Holt's.

So what exactly is unschooling? That is a difficult question to answer, as unschooling means something different to each person. A simple explanation is allowing children the freedom to learn what they choose at their own pace. It is an open ended process where children's natural curiosities are free to blossom as they choose. Little to no formal structure is held, unless the child asks for it. In this way a child is not hindered by what others feel he should learn, but is led by his own internal drives and desires.

For many this seems almost outrageous. The majority of us were raised in the public school system where we were guided by teachers and taught specific lessons. The lax attitude of unschooling can be a shock to the system. But unschoolers say that what they are doing is actually perfectly normal. Left to their own devices many children can and do learn quite a number of things. Anyone with young children can contest the insatiable curiosity that drives them to understand the world around them. Babies walk, toddlers talk, and children strive to learn and do more.

 
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I have homeschooled my three kids. Our approach most closely resembles unschooling. So far, our oldest son has a 4.0 GPA in college. This is his second year. The other two haven't started yet, but I expect they will do just as well. He did have to do some brushing up on math, though, as it was a subject that he didn't enjoy.

Posted on 10/03/2007 at 12:10:00 AM

sorry for the typos - "geting" should be "getting" and "don't beat yourself" should be "don't beat yourself up". :-)

Posted on 09/20/2007 at 8:09:00 AM

I'm glad to hear it is geting better rhdd. Don't beat yourself for not trying sooner. Homeschooling is usually not an option that many parents even think about, let alone consider. You should still applaud yourself for stepping in when you did. Great job! :-)

Posted on 09/20/2007 at 8:09:00 AM

I am the grandparent (legal guardian) of a 12 year-old boy with bi-polar disorder. Elementary school was troubled, but manageable with an IEP in place. Middle school was a nightmare - was placed in an 'alternative' school for troubled kids where he learned gang signs, and some very imaginative nasty names to call us, raged frequently and was becoming increasingly violent. I have been homeschooling him for a month now, the change is amazing, he is eager to learn, the rages have stopped and the cursing and namecalling are a thing of the past. I regret not doing it sooner....

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 11:09:00 PM

Oh, to add, I have found that the main determination needed for homeschooling is actually on the parent's end - not the child's. Children at that age are used to learning every day, even if they don't like it. School time is normal for them. If you structure it in a way where the child knows that there is a time for school and a time to play, it will become normal to the child and feel just like if they were in "regular" school. My children actually said to me that they prefer homeschool because they learn more things and I explain things better than their teachers. If I were you, I'd work with him in a weak subject on a Saturday or Sunday as a test to see how he processes information. If you can get through to him after a few tries (sometimes it only takes one), you may want to consider homeschooling.

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 1:09:00 PM

Sherry, I also have a 10 year old that has difficulty with retaining information. Public schools did little to help because they simply hav no time for children like this. In a homeschool setting, it is much easier to reach an "at-risk" child because you are fully focused on that child. Whereas in a traditional school setting, all that happens is that child daydreams or gets into trouble for doing other things instead of paying attention and falls further and further behind. I found that with homeschooling, she is getting better and better at retaining information and paying attention. She has improved immensely. You said yourself that no school has been able to help him. That's the main reason I decided to try out homeschooling. No school has been able to help us either. 1 kid is extremely ahead in everything and the other is extremely ahead in reading, but way behind in math. However, now that I have again taken over the schooling, drastic changes are occurring on a daily basis.

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

I agree with this acticle that homeschooling can benefit students. However, when a child has difficulty learning in the first place homeschooling or unschooling may not benefit them at all. I have a 10 year old little boy at home and no means of school has been able to help him physically keep the information he needs to learn in his head. He can only retain information for a simple matter of 10 minutes or less. Homeschooling can work as long as you have a determine child that can and is willing to learn in that atmosphere.

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 11:09:00 AM

I love the idea of homeschooling. I hope that when my kids are old enough I am in a position financially to do this. I think that children should have a balance, while making the effort to nurture their interests.

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 1:09:00 AM

CONTINUED---...or homeschool articles. I also suggest doing a search of homeschool content here on AC. You may be surprised at what you learn. :-)

Posted on 09/17/2007 at 10:09:00 PM

LOL AP, too funny! We homeschool, but we combine the best of all resources available. I write most of the children's assignments by researching and finding the best answers from a variety of resources. They also do worksheets, read, and do hands-on studying - to name just a few things. Shortly they will be starting homeschool PE at the local YMCA. There are also some extra math classes they will be taking at the local junior college just for fun. In addition, they will each be doing a fun activity of their choice - also at the junior college (art, drama, music, crafts, sports, educational, and more to choose from). I don't think most people who haven't been around a homeschooling family really understand that it is not all done in the home. There may be days when that occurs, but for the most part, homeschooled kids get more socialization and hands-on learning than those in traditional school. Anyone who disagrees - For reference, read any of my lesson plans, socialization articles, or

Posted on 09/17/2007 at 10:09:00 PM

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