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Self-Defense to Combat Bullying?

By Concerned Citizen, published Jan 17, 2007
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Bullying is a huge problem in today's schools. More kids than ever are growing up after being bullied and wishing they had defended themselves. When I was that small, I did not know how to defend myself, so I sat back and took it. Now, I wish that I had done something about it. The arts of self-defense should be taught to children so they don't have to undergo the trouble of bullying.

First of all, kids need to stop laying back and taking bullying. Parents continue telling kids to "ignore it and it will go away." This is completely untrue. Bullying does not go away when you ignore it. Bullying only goes away when the person doing the bullying gets put down. Self-defense is the means to the end in this case.

Verbal bullying can be taken down in different ways. Verbal bullying can be taken down by possibly taking other forms of verbal action. The tried method of talking to an authority figure has around a 25% chance of working. Principals and other teachers would usually much rather look the other way than put an end to this bullying. This is not because the teachers are bad people and don't care, but it is because teachers and principals have to go through loads of trouble to remedy these problems.

Self-Defense to Combat Bullying?

Bullying is a serious problem.

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Takeaways
  • Self-defense is not really a form of violence.
  • Self-defense is a great way to get rid of a bully.
  • Most schools won't do anything about bullies.
Did You Know?
Most school shootings are bully related.
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Well said. Everyone should have the right to defend themsevles. Even in school.

Posted on 03/13/2007 at 5:03:00 PM

 
Anyway, what I was trying to say is that if you put all the smart students who actually want to learn in the same school they will most likely respect each other because they will all be at school to do what they're supposed to do. They will see school as a stepping stone towards a successful career rather than a social event. Most of the time it's the kids who want to be successful in their lives and, hence, do well at school, that get bullied for being different. Most of the time the kids who bully do so because they are bored at school because they aren't interested in learning. Those kids can be put in a school that focusses on sports if that's what they want. Better yet, just let them drop out and work in a factory. What's the point in spending millions of dollars of taxpayers' money on trying to educate kids that clearly don't want to learn? I have seen teachers try and try again to educate these kids but it never works, they just end up dropping out in Year 10 and end up working

Posted on 02/23/2007 at 7:02:00 AM

 
WTF? Why was my comment truncated?

Posted on 02/23/2007 at 7:02:00 AM

 
I agree that it's a good idea for kids to learn self-defence but, still, more needs to be done by authorities. Self defence works well in a 1-on-1 conflict. However, the problem is that bullies almost always gang up on individuals because they are cowards. This is what happened in my school - the bullies would always gang up on 1 person. It's a bit difficult for 1 person to defend themselves against 5. In more severe cases, the whole class treats a single person with contempt. Nothing can really be done by the individual in these cases. The trick is to separate the smart students from the dumb students. I've noticed that, generally, well-educated and intelligent people have a lot more respect for others. This may not always be the case but most of the time it is. The thing with schools is that usually around 90% of the students wouldn't give a rats ass about learning. They would rather dedicate their entire teenage years to running after a ball in a field and following stupid pop

Posted on 02/23/2007 at 7:02:00 AM

 
As a teacher, I've seen how little administrators will really do with a case of bullying. It's so frustrating to have a student in my classroom who continues to be picked on the the administration, even after our urging, simply look the other way and say "kids will be kids." When students are not taught how to stand up for themselves, it results in greater acts of violence, such as full-fledged fights and weaponry. I would encourage parents to have their children learn basic self-defense moves so that bullying can be quickly rectified with minimal violence.

Posted on 01/25/2007 at 12:01:00 PM

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