Becoming a Stay-At-Home Parent: It's Not for Everyone

By Christie Silvers, published Jan 17, 2007
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Are you thinking about becoming a stay-at-home parent? This is actually a big decision for anyone to make. Everyone who is considering becoming a stay-at-home parent should really think hard on this decision. It's not a job that's for everyone.

I have been a stay-at-home mom for over ten years now and I'll tell you right now that it's not for the faint of heart. I love being at home with my girls and I would not change that for anything. There is nothing better, to me, than being here any time my girls need me. I would truely hate having to worry about going to a job outside the home when my girls are sick or just clingy. But for some people being home all day just isn't something that they can handle.

While many people in today's American society view a stay-at-home parent as being less than a valued participant in the household, a stay-at-home parent is actually a very valuable commodity to a family. Over these last ten years I have realized that I do far more work NOW than I did when I had an actual job outside the home. Even my husband realizes that I have a lot to do in my days. Whoever came up with the idea that stay-at-home moms just sit around watching soap operas and eating bon-bons all day was downright delusional.

Being a stay-at-home parent can be very challenging, especially to those that have always worked outside the home. When you think about staying at home to raise your children you will need to consider many of the following aspects of being home full time. It's not as easy as most think it is.

Becoming a Stay-At-Home Parent: It's Not for Everyone

The three little reasons that I'm a SAHM.

Credit: Christie Silvers

Copyright: Christie Silvers

Takeaways
  • Staying home all day can be lonely.
  • You will probably need a budget.
  • Being a stay-at-home parent is it's own reward.
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Great article. Although I transitioned to a work-at-home mom, I am able to incorporate my work into my children's day. I wanted to do this to be able to stay with my littlest children who are 3 and 6 now. I think it's sad that people are so hard lined on whether mom's should be at home or in the work place. So many people think stay-at-home mom's don't do anything, most of the ones I know work far harder than their counterparts in the workforce.

Posted on 01/22/2007 at 11:01:00 AM

 
Happy Birthday 2 me!

Posted on 01/18/2007 at 5:01:00 AM

 
great read Christie. I've been a stay at home mom for about 3 years and you are right, it's not for evryone. Looking forward to reading more!

Posted on 01/18/2007 at 5:01:00 AM

 
Great article, now I wish I would get some accepted today. LOL

Posted on 01/17/2007 at 5:01:00 PM

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