Get over that first love.
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Tips for Getting Over that Tough First Relationship
If you ever want to have a successful relationship again, then you are going to have to get over your first love. Most of us have those first loves and then watch them as they go away. We let them go. A certain few hold onto that first love, though. If this is you, then you need to read this article, which will read like a self-help on how to get over that first love.Out of sight often means out of mind. If you really want to get over that first love, then quit talking to them. Get rid of your means of communication. Block their internet name, delete their phone number, and cut it all off. This might sound difficult, but it will be the best thing for you. You will feel some hurt and some pain to begin with, but eventually you will see the benefit of this break in communication. If you really want to get over that person, it is essential not to even try to be friends. It will not work that way. If you get as far enough away from them, then you will get over them quickly. Never, under any circumstances, put yourself through having to witness the terrible experience of them getting over you.
You will love again. Remember that. It is not the end of the world when you break it off. Everybody had a first love that they had to get over at some point. Ask around to those who are closest to you. How did they get over it? What exactly did they do to move on? If you learn these things, you will stand a better chance of getting over that first love of yours.
- Out of sight, out of mind
- Remember that there are more out there for you
- Use your friends
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Toni
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12/20/2009
so not true, if u truely love someone u want to b in their life which makes it so hard to just cut off communication. im 19 and have been with my bf(first) for 6 months and thing where wonderful in the beginning now its like he doesnt even care how i feel and hes cheated on me so many times and i still go bac i love him so much that i cant imagine not talking to him or seeing him even after all hes done to me i want to b over it so bad and move on but he always know wat i want to hear to keep me with him i dont even remember wat i did before i was with him and dont know wat i would do if i wasnt with him, i just dont want to b alone.....no one does
abrigail
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10/01/2009
this article isnt all true. its been 4 yrs since my first love & I broke up. & yet i still think about him everyday. i try constatnly to forget him but its too hard. i cut off all communication like this article said but for some reason, he still stays on my mind. I just want some closure between us. Then maybe i can move on with my life and find a relationship that wont fail.
sarah
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09/08/2009
im 18 years old, i had been with my partner since i was 13 so 5yrs, we were each others first everything, we didnt hav a choice to break up. see we broke up 3mths ago nd he got a new gf in tat time but afta 2wks wit her he came bak to me but a wk ago we found out shes pregnant to him and its def his so he went bak to her cause of the baby. i dont kno if ill eva get ova him i love him so much and i wish things were different..
dave
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08/24/2009
Completely disagree with this article. I have not had any contact with my first love in 11 years. I have been with many women since, and still I can not find anything close to what I felt with her. I think about her everyday. Haven't called or texted her since we broke up. What, should I wait another 11 years to find true love, or should I try and contact her? If I don't I'll never know, and if I do and she doesn't then I have my answer. Wish me luck, I'm gonna need it.
Stela
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07/12/2009
I don't agree, I've done precisely that, it's been two years, Christ, I live on a different continent.it didn't work.
Allison
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07/03/2009
I don't agree with some of this because first of all your relationship with your first love is different for everyone. Some of my friemds now hate their first love for some reason, but i am best friends with mine. I am over him, and i know this for sure. We are both with different people now and we are both fine with it. I didn't cut off all of our commnications in order to get to this stage. We texted eachother every night after the break up and we stayed close. I know i really did love him from the moment we met, and that's why i didn't cut off any communications...it would hurt me to stay away from him. To get over him i just old myself that it wasn't meant to be and that there will be more people in my future. Just remember that no matter how bad your night is, the sun will come up tomorrow and even if you don't want it to, life moves on.
Lewis
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05/05/2009
Ok im 15, and i went out some one for a year. i was gutted for abseloute days on end i really was, she quickly went onto date someone else, and yes after that she came back to me. really she was very mean to me in the year, flirting with other people and even liking them at one point. I kept forgiving her but she kept abusing me, and she finished me. i did try my best, but im starting to look back now, did they really care if they did this? If you were in a relationshop and they did this to you, deep down did they love and care for you? you might be reading this and thinking oh my god, im never going to get over them, i can honestly promise you it will take time, But remember, your single. Get yourself out on town with the lasses/Lads and get out there! your single now. It will be extreemly hard, within time you will be yourself. You must believe this. Trust me .
Kirsten
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04/23/2009
I miss my first love daryll so much, we broke up about 2 months ago and were engaged, eventhought the proposal i found out was for the wrong reasons...:( its as if my world is falling apart, he was my sun, source of happiness. Even little things like snuggling up in bed ment so much and i miss it. But i miss the old daryll he has changed into a prick:(
michelle
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04/22/2009
My first love was five years ago and I haven't seen him in an entire year.. But it still hurts..I want to be his friend. He was my first best friend and the only person I trusted. I don't think I will ever have closure on what happened.
Tiffani
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04/13/2009
The love of my life just left me three days ago. We were together for a year and nine months. This wasn't the first time he left, but I know it needs to be the last. It's really killing me. Things were going great, that's why i'm so confused. He ignored me for a week after we hung out, then left me. The last day we spent together we went to Houston and had so much fun together. He claimed that I'm too clingy or some crap, when we haven't even hung out much at all lately or anything. So i think it's just an excuse. I know I haven't been clingy. I'm so afraid there's another girl... and I keep dreaming about him. I want it all to just end.
I feel so lonely, so depressed and so lost. Everytime I start to smile or laugh, a little voice goes off in my head, "Daniel's gone. He's not coming back! Why are you smiling! You have no right to!" I just don't know what to do... I want him back, more than ever. I don't feel like it was supposed to be like this... I feel like he's still supposed to
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