Mental Illness, How to Cope

Mental Illness, How to Cope
If you broke an arm and wore a cast, people would sympathize with you and sign your cast; all would be fine. If you cut yourself you would have a bandage and the same principles would apply.

If you have a broken mind you can expect to be a pariah, avoided and treated differently from other people who are supposedly "normal". Normalcy being gauged by a great many people, and maybe not totally accurately.

After ten years of disabling domestic abuse, a session of homelessness and a few other things, I 'lost' my mind. It was a long search to find it again. . . and the struggle to keep it goes on daily.

If you are a 'functioning' mentally ill person you have a responsibility to see to your wellness. You have a right to do what it takes to keep yourself able to participate in the outside world. You also have the right to be understood and treated with compassion and respect.

This morning I had to fire my housekeeper, caregiver. It has been bumpy, but it finally came to a situation where I had to make a decision. She had brought me a fluffy, cuddly teddy bear from the dollar store. Now, at one time deep in my illness, after my daughter took my grandchild from me, I wandered around holding a baby doll.

Now I am to a point where I know that was sick. I also know that to have such things around is dangerous for me. I tried to explain, but she raised a fuss, crying and playing the martyr - should I have not told her? I think I was within my rights, and a compassionate person would accept the situation. Then I could not eat the unwanted breakfast she fixed for me and things went to pieces.

In order to be functioning and stable, I must order my life and see to my own wellness. To be in the company of someone who is having their own problems is a bad choice. If you have family or a spouse, SO, or friend you live with, you must protect yourself from unsettling situations.

Making the most of who I am.

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