BDSM: Signs it May Be Time to Leave the Lifestyle

No Punches Pulled Signs that is Time to Move On

Anytime you start off with anything new you can barely stand it for excitement, everything seems to set you right over the top in a positive way, and you can't wait to do it over and over again. BDSM (Bondage Domination Sadism Masochism) is no exception regardless if you are attracted to the dominant side or the submissive one.

The search for yourself within your chosen side begins and often can take a long time before you really find out what it is you enjoy, don't like and feels right for you. Perhaps you were brought in by an opposite and have a "play" Partner right off the start, in other cases you are now playing the alternative lifestyle dating game. Never an easy one, but regardless part of the entire scene just as it would be in a vanilla life.

Let us assume you have committed yourself at one time in your life to BDSM not just as a weekend kink, but an actual Lifestyle. You have had years of experience in it and have done more then you would care to confess to anyone. Suddenly, however, things just seem to have stopped somehow. Not stopped to be as they once were, but stopped completely.

You wonder if it is time to perhaps leave your partner, but something seems to be niggling on your consciousness. Is it your partner or is it indeed just time to leave the BDSM Lifestyle.

The thought of doing anything related to BDSM no longer arouses you!

It isn't even just one or two areas of BDSM that no longer keep you aroused, but it is the thing in its entirety. Service to your Master or Mistress no longer gives you a feeling of fulfillment, but makes you feel as if could think of better ways to spend your time. Having to train and "exercise" your submissive just makes you moan, another chore to complete. When the thrill is that far gone, that you are almost happy when your opposite has a "headache", it is pretty much an indication that it is time to either take a break or step out completely.

You are physically and mentally no longer able to handle it!