The Valentine's Day Gift Most Wives REALLY Want

Valentine's Day is coming soon. The other day, I was thinking, "What would be the most wonderful thing that Marc could do for me this Valentine's Day?" Extra money has been hard to come by these days, so diamonds and other fancy things are not really possible. However, as I really think about it, even if we had a lot of money, diamonds would not mean as much to me as something else... time.

Yes, time would be the best gift of all this Valentine's Day. It's not that I am too busy; it's that my time is not my own. Many wives feel this way. It seems like every bit of time in my day belongs to someone else. Either I am cooking dinner for my husband, or taking care of my son, or running an errand for my mom. While these are things I enjoy, sometimes I miss the days where my life allowed me more time for me.

It doesn't even have to be time for just me. Time for me and my husband to just be a couple together, like when we were dating, that would be really nice too.

HOW TO GIVE TIME

Obviously, time is not as easy a Valentine's Day gift to give as a box of chocolates. It takes a bit more thought, and a bit more work, but it will definitely be worth the joy it brings to your wife. To help you along, here are some suggestions:

A "Day Off" Certificate

On Valentine's Day, give your wife a nice card, and inside the card include a homemade certificate good for a day off from everything. You might want to look at her calendar and work schedule and see when a good day would be, so that you can actually choose the day for her. If it is up to her to decide when to use it, she may feel too guilty or too busy to actually choose a day and take it.

On the back of the certificate, explain the terms of the day off. She will be allowed to choose anything that she wants to do, except chores of any kind. She can plan an outing with her friends. She can spend a day at the spa. She can go to the mall and shop all day. Anything she wants to do is fine. That day, she is to give you a list of things that she would normally have accomplished that day, and you will do your best to complete everything on the list. You will take care of the kids (or arrange for childcare). It is her day to feel like a woman, not just a wife and mother.