Are Online Sex Dating Sites Ruining Your Relationship?

Are Online Sex Dating Sites Ruining Your Relationship?

Have you or your mate secretly (or not so secretly) been browsing online dating sites or sex hook up sites? Is is out of curiosity? Are you bored? Are you just looking for home grown porn or to have cyber sex? Even the Diane Keaton character in the recent movie Because I Said So gets curious and logs onto Adult Friend Finder.

Or are you really looking to hook up with someone else for sex behind your mate's back?

Adultery and Cheating Trend

Adultery and cheating are so commonplace that it may lose its name soon. The Scarlett letter A of adulterers was meant as a moniker of an unloyal, dishonest person who spat in the face of their relationship. Now it seems acceptable to many people to whittle away at their love bond in pursuit of their next conquest.

Brad Pitt (allegedly) cheated on Jennifer Aniston with Angelina Jolie. YOu can hot, you can be rich, you can be Jennifer Aniston, ladies, and he still may be looking online for someone else to pleasure.

The Numbers:

Author of "The Monogamy Myth," Peggy Vaughan, estimates that 60 percent of married men and 40 percent of married women have an affair while they are married.

"One-third of divorce litigation is caused by online affairs." - The Fortino Group

Curiousity or Serious Pursuit?

Perhaps the guilty can defend themselves by saying they were "just looking" or just looking to cyber. Or maybe they wanted to satisfy their ego and see if they could hook up with someone if they wanted to. This may or may not be acceptable in the parameters of your relationship. Only and your mate know. Trouble crops up when one mate says it's okay and the other does not agree.

Why Cheaters and Adulterers Do It