Keeping Safe with Online Dating

By Jennifer Weiss, published Feb 05, 2007
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These days people are meeting in various different ways. One of the most popular ways is through sites like eHarmony and match.com. When we meet someone online, sometimes they are not who they say they are. There are somethings we all can do to keep ourselves safe.

Never give personal information: no one should ask you for your personal information. When you first meet someone do not give out your personal information like phone numbers, address, or any other personal information that someone could use to harm you in some way. You should get to know a person for a couple months before even giving out your name. If he or she is not willing to wait to get acquainted, it's not worth it.

Wait before meeting: You should meet a person unless you really know them. You may trust most people you meet, but not everyone on the internet can be trusted. Talk online for a couple months via instant messenger, email or whatever. If the person is truly interested in getting to know you, they'd wait. If the one you are talking to is persistent in meeting, don't be quick to trust them.

Ask a lot of questions: Ask a whole lot of different questions to gain more knowledge of a person. nothing real personal, but stuff about hobbies, family, interests, even religious thoughts. You can tell a lot about a person based on their interests. I don't respond to certain profiles because of things listed in their interests.

Takeaways
  • Don't meet in private
  • Don't give out personal information
  • Don't trust right away.
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