How Living Abroad Changed My Life

By Christine Zibas, published Feb 10, 2007
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Living abroad: It's one of those things that can set the daydreaming on overdrive. I had always put living overseas on my life list, that is, it was one of those things I always dreamed about doing. I studied international relations in college. Lots of my friends were foreign students who came from cultures and had lifestyles far different than my own. What did it take to get a job overseas? How did the fantasy match up with the reality? Let me tell you how living in London changed my life. It's probably far less glamorous than you'd expect and yet the experience definitely changed me for the better.

Finding a Job Overseas
The beginning of this story begins with being laid off. I had a great job working for a think tank (or in the more romantic world of international politics, an international research institute), when one day, out of the blue, my boss told me that the think tank was in a severe budget crisis, and I was being laid off. In desperation to keep the paychecks coming before my time ended, I started freelancing and looking for another job. I didn't have any real intention of looking for a job overseas, but serendipity would have a very big role to play in this story. One of the people I was freelancing with told me he had seen a job listed in "The Economist" magazine. "Why don't you apply?" he suggested. Sure, I thought to myself. However, at that point I was sending out hundreds of resumes to both the Washington, DC, area (where I lived) and to New York (someplace else I've always dreamed of living), so I thought, why not? To make a long story short, the person to whom I sent my resume had worked someplace I, too, had worked and had been hired for his present job in London by a woman who was one of my references. International politics is a small world indeed.

Takeaways
  • Living abroad gives you a chance to see the world with "new eyes."
  • Being flexible and enjoying the differences will smooth the way.
  • English is not a common language for Americans and Brits.
Did You Know?
The average Londoner sees more plays than movies in a year.
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Excellent article! I enjoyed readingabout your experience; made me wish I hadtried it when I was younger.

Posted on 06/14/2008 at 5:06:50 PM

 
Thank you for the empathy you feel for immigrants in this country. I'm from the UK now transplanted in northern California, so I was intrigued to see what you would have to say about my country. I have had a lot of cultural differences to adjust to over here. I still find the tone of people's voices a little too loud for my personal taste, but I accept this as well as other inevitable differences between our two hugely different cultures. Sophie

Posted on 09/16/2007 at 4:09:00 PM

 
I always knew we were loud and uncultured over here :) This was fascinating. Thanks for sharing.

Posted on 03/06/2007 at 8:03:00 AM

 
I found your story very interesting because I have always wanted to visit London, although I doubt I'll ever make it!

Posted on 02/21/2007 at 12:02:00 PM

 
It takes a lot of guts to do something this bold. I have always wanted to live somewhere else but have always been scared to do it. I liked your article.

Posted on 02/19/2007 at 11:02:00 AM

 
Wonderful article Christine. I really wanted to do a study abroad while in college, but it just didn't work out. I did get an internship in New York though, and that was a great experience.

Posted on 02/17/2007 at 6:02:00 PM

 
What refreshing read. Great article!

Posted on 02/15/2007 at 11:02:00 PM

 
Ah the tea thing! Growing up in an Irish family, my grandmother and mother had tea umpteen times a day. :) Great story.

Posted on 02/15/2007 at 6:02:00 PM

 
I loved reading about the differences in words and foods.It's nice that you had this opportunity in your life.Thanks for sharing.

Posted on 02/14/2007 at 11:02:00 AM

 
Thanks for sharing your experience. I always wanted to do a study abroad or something like that where I would be able to live overseas, but it never happened. I have been to London twice, though, and I loved it both times. I'd go back again in a heartbeat!

Posted on 02/12/2007 at 11:02:00 AM

 
What a great story...and what a great life you've lived, Christine. I too have lived overseas and, for me, it was a great adventure. I encourage young people to really try to go overseas even if it's just six months. It's a great education. Great article!

Posted on 02/11/2007 at 5:02:00 AM

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