Coerced Adoption Should Concern Parents

Pregnant and Parenting Teens Targeted by Adoption Agencies

When you sent your teen to off to school today, you worried that she would fail her test, bomb her audition for the school play, or cut out of gym class to see her boyfriend. You never thought that while in the hallowed halls of academia, she would be convinced to take her baby and run
 away from your loving home on the advice of her guidance counselor. Yet that's exactly what happened to Judy Bennett.

Stephanie Bennett was a 17 year old mother and student, living at home in Ohio with her supportive mom and step-dad when she revealed concerns about motherhood to guidance counselor Thomas Saltsman. Instead of bolstering her confidence and encouraging her in her role as a parent, he immediately arranged for her to meet with A Child's Waiting adoption agency on school grounds, during school hours.

Days after their first meeting and feeling pressured to "do the right thing" by her daughter, Stephanie took baby Evelyn and ran away from home. Hours later, she signed the paperwork allowing the agency to take her daughter away.

Soon reunited with her mother and step-father, Stephanie and her family began fighting to overturn the adoption. The agency has hidden the identity and whereabouts of baby Evelyn's adopters, and the Bennetts must now prove that Stephanie was coerced before the adoption can be overturned. Justice seems unlikely for Stephanie Bennett and her daughter.

Coercion Common in Adoption

From media messages portraying adoption as a "loving option" to celebrities jumping on the adoption bandwagon at a ridiculously high rate, it's near impossible for the average person to get a clear look at what adoption really entails. Young women who are considering surrendering an infant for adoption have an even harder time sorting truth from propaganda when confronted with empty promises of openness, pleading letters hopeful adopters who appear perfect on paper, and shoddy counsel from legal and psychological professionals whose paycheck comes straight from the adoption agency.

 
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Months late in chiming in here, but this article is dead on! thanks jessica for all you do. Stephanie, your child will have google, and will know the truth one day :( i am so sorry for what you must live with everyday :(

Posted on 03/26/2009 at 11:03:42 PM

To all who read this, My son was born in the month of January and my wife and I had a very unhealthy relationship. I had hopes that with our new member of the family I would be treated more like an adult then I child by her and her family. I was only left alone once during the first two months of his life for one hour and she called me three times. I had also hoped that she and I would not have her family always involved in everything that had happened (being able to make my own decisions). This only made things worse. During this time I had befriended some people who talked to me a lot about my life, one of which was a young woman who my wife thought I was having an affair with. She wanted me to quit the job (that this woman was at) in order to work things out and I saw that it made no difference because she wasn't involved. It got to the point where I didn't want to even come home anymore. I offered my wife to just have her family around less or to move away so that we cou

Posted on 01/30/2009 at 5:01:02 PM

where do you get your facts that councelors are paid by adoption agencies? just asking, I believe what you write.

Posted on 07/31/2008 at 6:07:16 PM

I agree with you that coercion is wrong. In fact I think the whole adoption industry is in shambles and needs to be completely revamped. Adoption can be a wonderful thing but deliberately convincing a mother to give up her baby and making adoption SO expensive, such a profitable exchange, it's wrong. I believe adoption is a selfless and loving act; people do this becase they genuinely want to love a child and care for them. But unfortunately there are alot of problems with the system, and ALL parties are taken advantage of.

Posted on 05/23/2007 at 10:05:00 PM

Excellent article!! Baby Evelyn needs to be returned to "the only family she's ever known" and is related to...and "A Child is Waiting" need to be permanently stopped...

Posted on 04/18/2007 at 11:04:00 PM

Great work as usual!

Posted on 04/13/2007 at 11:04:00 AM

Thanks Jess for this wonderful article about the adoption industry and the tactics used to get babies away from decent families. Wonder if the school guidance counselor gets a cut of the profits - or is he just an "angel" helping out the baby-brokering businesses?

Posted on 03/04/2007 at 8:03:00 PM

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