Child Abuse: Can You Help Out?

Child abuse is something that occurs multiple times in the United States on a daily basis. The abuser can be a parent, babysitter, grandparent, or family friend. Teachers and other adults who see these children on a daily basis can stop this abuse if they would take the time to report it. Most people who suspect it do not want to say anything for fear that they are wrong. If you see a child that you suspect is the victim of abuse, call Child Protective Services. Read to see exactly what happens after you make a report and for a few red flags that you can use to determine if abuse is taking place.

When you call and make a report to CPS, most offices give you the choice of making an anonymous report. If they do not, your name will not be used in any way except for possible contact for questions. Your name will never be mentioned in the presence of the family that is being investigated. When CPS arrives they will investigate the claim and either confirms that abuse is present or note that it is unfounded. If you are incorrect, do not feel bad. If you had been correct you could have saved the life and childhood of a child that had no voice. Too many children are having to live a life of hell at the hands of their abusers. These not only affect the child during the time of the abuse, its affects are carried into adulthood in many ways. It can affect their communication skills which can hinder job searches and relationships. Abuse is also something that can be passed down generations.

If you suspect that a child is being abused. Here are a few red flags that you should look for that could be signs of abuse.

-If you notice injuries that are in various stages of healing and the child has no reasonable answer as to why they are there.

-Check the child's posture and general appearance. Are they appropriately dressed? Are they withdrawn, anxious, or depressed? These are also signs of a child who is shy but these coupled with other signs could be a strong sign of abuse or neglect.

- If the child is reluctant to go home after school or hesitant to leave with their parent when they are picked up.