What Women Don't Want in Bed

The Seven Biggest Complaints Women Have About Their Lovers in the Sack

By Johnny Moon, published Feb 15, 2007
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We can learn a lot about how to improve our sex lives with our girlfriends or wives by learning about what they don't like and what they don't want. I've done some research to find out what things women most often complain about when it comes to their men in the sack.

The Following Are 7 Of The Biggest Problems That Women Have With Their Lovers:

#1 My Man Won't Discuss Sex With Me

A lot of men find it very difficult to talk about sex with their girlfriends or wives. But you can't really improve your sex life without some communication. And it's very important how you communicate. You shouldn't be using the "F" word for example to talk about intercourse unless your girlfriend or wife uses that word herself to describe it. A good way to start a discussion about sex with your girl is to start off by talking about something you like about your sex life (hopefully there is something to say here!) such as "I like it when you ..."

#2 My Man Takes Everything I Say About Our Sex Lives As Criticism

When your girlfriend or wife asks you to do something new this shouldn't be taken as a criticism of what you are doing now. You can't be expected to know exactly how to please your woman. You are not a mind reader and women are more complicated than men in how they are pleased sexually. A very important point is that each woman is different. Something that might have driven your last girlfriend crazy might not do anything for your current girlfriend for example. The point is your sex life isn't going to improve if you take constructive input as a negative critique. This of course goes both ways! You can show her by example that you are willing to take her suggestions and then of course you can expect the same in return!

#3 My Man Doesn't Have Good Hygiene

Takeaways
  • Slow Down! The biggest complaint of women about their lovers is that they go too fast.
Resources
  • Sex Guide For Men
  • Men's Sexual Health
  • Men's Health
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I have been married just over 36 years, like 36 years 3 months and 1 day. I read them and believe me I take them to heart and I will apply in our marriage what I need to work on. Yes, after 36 years one still needs to make efforts to keep it interesting and fulfilling. One thing I really need to work on is the belly fat. My wife looks incredible. I too need to reciprocate in the same area. I believe in "crocodile love". It's something I heard on "Crocodile Hunter" before he died. He said that crocodiles "woo" their mate with foreplay for hours before any intercourse. I have found that this is great for my wife. I really appreciate the 7th one. Women want to cuddle after sex. This I will MAKE SURE I do from this point on. I found this article because I wanted to find out how to kiss my wife better. I'm better at talking during...than she is. I ask about things I do and how she likes it.(she loves when I nibble from head to toe and back..we do nicely..don't tell our 5 kids

Posted on 07/26/2008 at 11:07:02 PM

 
how can i make my wife how is 8 weeks now horny some one help me e-mail me at brennenharley@yahoo.com

Posted on 04/05/2008 at 2:04:46 PM

 
Now if only they would read and learn, too..haha..just joking. everything is dead on except for the snuggling thing - or maybe i'm just a wierd female...

Posted on 02/27/2007 at 8:02:00 AM

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