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How to Potty Train Your Child

Tips for Overcoming One of Childhood's Most Challenging Developmental Stages

By Katharine Swan, published Nov 20, 2005
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At some point in your child’s early years, he or she will need to be potty trained. Toilet training a child can be an intimidating undertaking, especially if the parents are not prepared for what it will entail. Knowing what to expect during potty training, and how to handle it, will make this stage of your child’s life pass quickly and more easily.

Is Your Child Ready?

Potty training will be much easier on child and parent alike if the child is already developmentally ready for the challenge. There are several ways your child may let you know when he or she is ready, so pay close attention.

Your child’s diaper is often dry when you check it. If your child is showing signs of holding it for a period before relieving their bladder, it means they are developing control of the muscles.

Your child lets you know when his or her diaper needs changed. Alerting you to a wet or messy diaper also shows the beginnings of awareness of how their body functions.

Your child tells you his or her diaper needs changed – before it actually does. If your child alerts you of the need for a clean diaper before they wet or soil it, they have learned to recognize the bodily sensations of having to go.

Your child shows interest in using the toilet. When a child begins asking questions about using the toilet “like the big people do,” it is usually a dead giveaway that he or she is ready to be potty trained. This curiosity may come sooner in a child with older siblings or friends who are potty trained, or in a child that has any other motivation for acting grown up.

Reward and Punishment: What Not to Do

There are many fallacies that parents and caregivers may succumb to when potty training a child. Knowing what not to do may avoid certain problems along the road to successful toilet training.

Dangerous Rewards

Takeaways
  • Children tend to show when they are ready to start potty training.
  • Rewarding your child with treats and toys for using the toilet can be detrimental.
  • Making a child primarily responsible for cleaning up their own messes is a powerful teaching tool.
Did You Know?
While a child may appear to be completely potty trained during waking hours, he or she may still wet the bed at night.
Resources
  • For more information on raising children by methods of natural and logical consequences, read Children: The Challenge by Rudolf Dreikurs.
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LOL You can always do what my parents did to my sister! If she went in her pants and knew she was suppose to go in the potty the undies went on her head! GROSS!!!!

Posted on 09/06/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

 
if you do that then the child will fear the potty and it will taske longer them longer to be trained

Posted on 08/18/2007 at 11:08:00 PM

 
You should do what my mom did to me. Strap your kid onto the potty chair and don't let them up until they've done their business.

Posted on 02/20/2007 at 4:02:00 PM

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