Why Women Shouldn't Fake Orgasms

It has become cliché to speak of women faking orgasms. Think back to When Harry Met Sally: Meg Ryan screaming away in a diner. She proved to Harry that yes, women can fake. And we fake it well. But why do we fake? Wouldn't that work out against us in the end? By faking it, your partner won't know how to improve in order to make you feel better. Although faking an orgasm can save women time and the discomfort of discussing the problem, it works out better if we're honest.

Why we fake it
Want to know the main reason why we fake orgasms? Because we can. That's right. If men had the ability to fake orgasms, they would. Sometimes you're tired and just want it to be over with. It's much easier to fake like you're done than say, 'yeah, I'm really not feeling it. Can we stop?'

We also fake orgasms when we know that the effort being put in won't lead to one. A man may be giving it his best effort, and we thank him for it, but if he isn't doing it right, nothing will happen. Sometimes women fake it so they don't hurt the feelings of their partners. While this is admirable, it doesn't do any good for anyone.

Why we shouldn't
Most people, when coming up with traits they seek in a mate, will list honesty as number one. Even the ladies that fake orgasms say that honesty is key. Well, how honest is it to pretend to have that moment of extreme pleasure? Not very honest at all. Granted, it could be considered as one of those white lies that are better than the truth, but once you start the lie, it's hard to stop. Your boyfriend might think, 'wow! I'm good! If I keep doing that, she'll get off every time!' If you fake it once, you may have to keep faking it again and again.

The biggest reason not to fake orgasms is because it helps both parties if you don't. Guys should know if they aren't doing it right. Once they do know, they can learn to do it better. Really, wouldn't you like to have a real orgasm than a fake one? Women could experience that if they were honest and said what they like and don't like. Honesty in the bedroom is just as important as honesty everywhere else in the relationship. Both partners will be a whole lot happier if their both honest and both try to please the other.