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Text Messaging New Vehicle for Romance

A 2007 Survey by by the International Communications Research Shows that Text Messaging is Used for Dating, Flirting and More

By Amanda Cartwright, published Feb 12, 2007
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A survey conducted by the International Communications Research shows that text messaging and wireless phones are becoming big parts of America's romantic lives. In fact, 28 percent of those surveyed report they do flirt by text messaging and six percent have judged a prospective date simply on the phone they use.

The survey was commissioned by AT & T and it's wireless partenr, Cingular. The results are published on the company's Web site, www.cingular.com

The survey, conducted in Jan. 2007, showed that more than third of Americans communicate with dates and mates with text messaging, sharing both the good and the bad. Twelve percent of the 1,000 people surveyed said they have used text messaging as a conservation starter with a date, while five percent have actually used text messaging to connect with a potential romantic interest while actually on a date with someone else.

"Text messaging has become part of the social fabric of dating in
America," said Jennifer Bowcock, director of consumer public relations for
Cingular Wireless, which recently merged with AT&T.

"People can text one another to make plans
or even say 'I love you' when they may not have the time or ability to make
a voice call. It is definitely a discreet and simple way to stay
connected," she said in a written press release.

Text messaging appears to be taking the place of the old "I've got to wash my hair" excuse, or at least the technology is making it easier to give and receive those messages. More than a quarter of respondents say text messaging has helped them avoid long conversations. Twelve percent credit text messaging with helping them avoid an unwanted date.

One of the survey results will come as no surprise to anyone who has dined out recently. Thirty-eight percent of respondents say great conversations over fine dining meals have been interested by a cell phone call. Thirty-one percent of respondents admitted to doing the same thing. Then, it should be shocking to learn that eight percent of respondents have actually ended a relationship over rude wireless behavior.

Text Messaging New Vehicle for Romance
Takeaways
  • Survey resondents said they used text messaging to avoid a date or a lengthy telephone conversation.
  • To make the interruption less offensive, tell a date why you have to take an important phone call.
  • For a happy Valentine's Day celebration, experts advice users to turn off the cell phone.
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I agree with all of you...I couldn't believe that someone would actually decide whether or not to date someone because of the cell phone they use. Ridiculous.

Posted on 02/16/2007 at 5:02:00 PM

 
Fun article. I think the ord "interested" was supposed to be "interupted" in the next-to-last paragraph,

Posted on 02/16/2007 at 8:02:00 AM

 
People judge a prospective date just on the phone they use? Moved up from clothing and cars, huh? lol. Texting is an awesome way to just send a little message that says I'm thinking of you. Good article, Amanda.

Posted on 02/13/2007 at 5:02:00 PM

 
I definitely agree with you! Text messaging does allow couples to send nice notes to each other now and then. It helps people stay connected even when they are in the middle of a busy day. It's always a nice surprise to get a thoughtful text from someone else, even if it's just a simple hello.

Posted on 02/13/2007 at 5:02:00 PM

 
Text messaging is definitely a part of dating now! Great article :)

Posted on 02/13/2007 at 12:02:00 PM

 
This makes me think of that commercial where the family is sitting down to dinner and the dad keeps text messaging everyone. I wonder what we as a society have become when we have to use text messages to communicate with each other. I can see, though, where it would help break the ice if you were in the dating scene. Great article! I didn't realize how much people had come to rely on texting!

Posted on 02/13/2007 at 3:02:00 AM

 
The message part I get, but judging a prospective date by the phone they use????

Posted on 02/12/2007 at 10:02:00 PM

 
People spend a lot of time text messaging to the delight of the phone companies...does anyone live in the moment anymore? People seem to get bored easily when they are out with others and spend their supposed "fun time out" texting other people who aren't there. It truly baffles me.

Posted on 02/12/2007 at 9:02:00 PM

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