Secret Shopping with Children

Secret shopping is a flexible way for stay-at-home parents to earn some money and get free meals, groceries, gas, etc.-all while bringing your children. However, there are some basic guidelines that any parent needs to follow when mystery shopping with kids in tow. To have a fun and worthwhile experience, remember:

Keep the "secret" in "secret shopping." Do not tell kids what you're doing. When I do an evaluation at a restaurant, I never tell my 5 year old that we're mystery shopping. Kids are notoriously bad about keeping secrets. I can just imagine going into a steakhouse and having my son walk up to the hostess and say, "Hi! We're secret shoppers! Shhhhh-don't tell anyone." To keep your job safe, keep it a secret from your kids.

Don't go when the kids are tired or hungry. If your toddler always naps from noon to two o'clock, don't accept an assignment during this time. Trying to evaluate customer service is nearly impossible with a cranky toddler in tow. It's unfair to your child, unfair to you, and it doesn't give the mystery shopping company much value. Simply accept assignments that work well with your child's schedule. An early lunch-free plus $10 for your time-is a much better way to go.

Be sure you can do everything required of your assignment with your kids along for the ride. If you're supposed to buy gas at a gas station and go inside to pay, don't leave your kids alone in an unattended car (it's illegal in many states). Many restaurant shops require that you examine the bathrooms-be prepared to take your kids with you if they're too young to be left unattended. Think through your assignments in advance, and be prepared to bring your kids with you for all steps of the shop, or do the assignment when someone else can watch them.

Make sure it's fun for your kids, too! If you're doing an apartment evaluation (which pays $45 with some companies) bring crayons and paper, small toys, or other things to occupy them. Always have "kid supplies", such as snacks, diapers and wipes (if needed), and a stroller (if needed). Plan ahead, and everything will be fine.