Sex After Your Hysterectomy

A hysterectomy is an operation in which a surgeon removes the uterus. Often women look for alternatives to this procedure, fearing a loss of sexual function and interest. The ovaries are responsible for producing hormones pertinent to sexual function. If the ovaries are left in place, thes hormones will continue to be produced.

There are women who report an experience of even greater sexual pleasure after a hysterectomy, especially if prior to the operation they had a significant amount of bleeding and pain prior to surgery. Other women are more relaxed just because they no longer worry about a pregnancy. Then there are women who experience lower sexual enjoyment. There are a number of reasons for this, some which are not fully understood.

Uterine contractions and pressure pressed against the cervix add to sexual pleasure. Some feel a decrease in pleasure due to the loss of hormones, especially if the ovaries have been removed. Loss of these hormones can produce vaginal dryness and make sex painful. Hormone replacement therapy can bring relief. Vaginal dryness can be easily remedied with vaginal gels or lubricant.

For some women, the decrease in sexual pleasure is brief during the period she and her partner are adjusting to a new way of sexually interacting. Arousal  vary from woman to woman which makes it unpredictable how a hysterectomy will affect an individual.

Here are suggestions that may help some overcome sexual difficulties:
•If you feel your sexual reaction has altered, it may be a state of mind that causes you to worry about changes. Try some relaxation techniques. Also realize that after surgery it is normal for your mind to take more time to prepare your body for sex.

•You and your partner may be anxious the first time the two of you are together. Do not ignore these feelings—talk to one another and be honest about what you are experiencing.

•Because vaginal dryness is common, use lubricants such as KY jelly to help make intercourse more pleasurable.