Is He into You or Just Trying to Get into You?

This seems to be the number one question in today's society when it comes to dating. In this article, I'm going to break down exactly what goes on in a man's head when he's dating a woman as well as some extremely important things for a woman to look out for when dating a man.

While this question is often an extremely complicated one, the first step is to identify what "stage" your man is in at that particular point in his life. When I say stage, I mean that all men go through 3 stages for what they are looking for from women. These 3 stages differ from man to man and are often based on the man's maturity level.

One stage is the "dog stage". This stage is where men just want to have sex with as many women as possible, as fast as possible. They don't really care about the woman's feelings at all.

Another stage is "the player stage". This stage is when a man finds someone who he's interested in settling down with but he still wants to have his fun on the side while dealing with multiple other women.

The last stage is "The wifey stage". This is when a man is truly interested in finding a wife or a girlfriend and really being committed to her. I'm not saying that men won't cheat during this stage, but it's not what he's setting out to do mentally.

When it comes to the question of how long a man will wait for sex when dating a woman, it depends on what stage he's in. If he's in the "dog stage" then you'll be lucky if he waits a week.

If he's in the "player stage" it many be a little longer but not much longer.

If he is in the "wifey stage" and is truly ready to settle down with someone who he wants to spend the rest of his life with, he'll wait as long as it takes.

The best advice that I could give a woman when dating a man is not to give it up too soon. No matter what the guy says, he won't respect you if you do. Men have ways of saying whatever they need to say to get what they want, so its best for all women not to give it up for a while. What's a while, you might ask? If it doesn't seem like a long time and your man hasn't started complaining, then it's too soon.