Online Dating Mistakes Men Make Including Overlooking a Woman's Profile

Anyone who's spent some time with me knows I'm a fan of Online Dating, I've met some really fantastic men this way, and I highly recommend it as part of your over all plan to get out there and meet great women. It can be an incredibly powerful tool if you use it right. I think, however, that it's time for a refresher course on just what "using it right" means. Because unfortunately there are still far too many men out there who are (sorry to be frank), totally blowing chunks at the Online Dating game.
So here's a quick refresher course of exactly what not to do if you want to succeed at the Online Dating Game: 

Ignore What She Wrote in Her Profile

As a writer I take great pride in writing a profile that really expresses the essence of me, so the men who ignore what I've written just aren't going to score points with me. I'm pretty clear on my profile that very clear that I'm a bit of a brainiac, so you might be able to see what the following message I received this week didn't quite do it for me: 

Headline: Hi
Body of his message: jusi stoping by 2 see if i catch ur intress 

I have no problem at all with the headline. "Hi" is just fine by me as a way of introducing yourself, but the body of his message made me grimace because it showed clearly that he hadn't taken the time to read my profile. No matter how hot the woman is in her photo take the time to read her profile, it'll clue you in on how to approach her with success. Let's be clear here - the smarter the woman, the smarter your approach needs to be, and the more you need to spell check what you're written.


Insult Her Thinking It'll Spark Her Interest

Here's the deal, the sort of totally hot, used-to-getting-whatever-she-wants women with whom using edgy, funny, put down humor to knock her off her pedestal are far far fewer in numbers than men believe. Women, even incredibly hot sexy women often have poor self-esteem, and even if they don't have poor self-esteem, they don't necessarily have over sized egos that handle insults and teasing well.