Is a Guy Suffering from Emotional Impotence Worth Waiting For?

Advice Columnist and Psychic Intuitive Zuri Counsels a Woman on What to Expect from This "On the Fence" Libran Man

Dear Zuri,

M used to be my boss a few years ago when he was going through a very nasty divorce. I quit and had no contact with him until 9 months ago when he just walked up and began kissing me at his Pub. We began dating and became exclusive immediately. After 4 months, we had a blow up and broke up. A month later, he emailed me inviting me over for wine and we got back together. A few weeks later we broke up again over miscommunication. A month after that we reconnected but decided to take things slow, mostly due to him being extremely stressed about his failing business, investments and his father's health. He didn't know it at the time, but he was suffering from depression. Last night he revealed that he is in full blown depression, but he's never suffered from depression, so he's not sure whats going on in his head. He said he doesn't want to feel anything for anyone, including me. He said he's never felt as connected to someone as he does me, not even with his ex wife, but for whatever reason, he's very depressed right now and wants me to go away. He said he wants to date other people who he feels nothing for so he won't have to be responsible for their feelings. He was all over the map with what he wanted, he just wasn't sure. My question is, what is going on with him, what is going to happen with us and is there anything I can do to fix this?

CH 10/72

Dear C,

Generally, Libran men have a reputation for being on the fence when it comes to commitment, which can lead to that hot and cold treatment you've been experiencing. This has been a major karmic lesson for you. You have put in a lot of effort to make this work by offering your love patiently but he hasn't even attempted to meet you halfway. When I checked out his tarot cards, the Eight of Pentacles and King of Rods revealed that he's very skilled at protecting himself and putting himself first in his life. Although the Ace of Pentacles supports that he may be awesome at starting things physically, the Five of Rods indicated that he lacks the follow through to close the deal and invest what it takes to maintain a stable relationship.