Why Marriages Fail ?

Introduction:

The marriage is considered to be the combination of two lives for passing the Life span with mutual interest. According to an other saying Husband and the wife are considered the wheels of vehicle if any one of them faces problems; the other will likely suffer the same. There are two types of marriages prevalent in the world. The First one is Love marriage and the other one is arranged marriage. In western countries mostly the love marriages are preferred over the arranged marriages because they have open society norms. But in Eastern Countries mostly the marriages are arranged by the parents of the boys and girls. The nature and problems of the marriages vary from the type of society. There are some societies where the marriages are regarded good and lawful relationship between the Wife and husband and it last for long time. But in the west in some countries, there are several problems because both the wife and husband have to work and look after the children. There are usually rifts upon the family background of the either side, financial matters and other domestic problems which cause divorce or separation legally from the life partner.

Main reasons of failure:

The main reasons of failure are giving below. These are related with natural, human relationships in marriage.

1. It is observed that often couples fail to anticipate differences which result from diverse cultural backgrounds, differing family experiences, gender, and so on.

2. the Couples fall into the concept of a "fifty-fifty" relationship, meaning they honestly expect their spouses to meet them halfway on all aspects

3. The society has taught us that humankind is basically good. Therefore, often the couples fail to anticipate and assess their self-centered natures that demand their own way.

4. The married couples fail to cope with life's trials or hard times. When painful trials come into the marriage, instead of standing together through them, couples tend to blame each other or in other words think something is wrong with the spouse and the way they handle the pain and this leads to their separation .