How to Be the Perfect Wife

Striving to Be the Perfect Wife Can Be Rewarding

The perfect wife knows how to provide the harmonic balance within the family unit. She knows how to balance career, domestic chores, taking care of the children and support her husband emotionally. The perfect wife has many roles to fulfill and finds it both a challenge and rewarding. Not
 every woman wants to be the perfect wife. Many women will purposely try to be something different to establish their independence. Even those women that rebuff the idea of a perfect wife, read on. There are many deep emotional rewards for striving to be the perfect wife.

The perfect wife knows how to smile at those jokes that aren't really that funny. She manages a small laugh and doesn't remind her husband that he has told that joke before repeatedly. Without her husband knowing it, the perfect wife embraces these age old jokes over and over as if they were brand new. The perfect wife will know that one day her husband might be in a nursing home not able to even recognize who she is. It will be that day that these old jokes will be a memory that keeps her going daily to visit her wonderful husband.

The perfect wife finds the energy to pick up the piles of clothes, socks strewn about and the glasses that never make it back to the sink. Instead of clearing up after everyone and feeling like a maid, the perfect wife is proud of her home. It will drive her nuts to have the little messes here and there. She cleans up without a second thought as to who did it last time or why everyone around her can't seem to walk to the kitchen sink. She knows that one day the house will be childless and there won't be laughter as everyone is gathered around the TV watching a movie and forgetting their dishes. The perfect wife covets the memories that are being made in the household from an active family life.

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It is from the perfect wife that many of us could learn to cherish today and let yesterday's problems stay in the past.
 
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Shouldn't this be under the Humor section? I mean really, I'm a guy and if I ever married a girl who was as complacent and obedient as the one portrayed in this piece, I'd go crazy. I'm sorry, but an independent woman who works with her husband and not as a house slave is a lot sexier and attractive to me then this slave wife you've written about. As a humor piece, this article works well.

Posted on 01/20/2009 at 11:01:25 AM

Sounds like this wife is babying her husband. He's supposed to be a partner!

Posted on 12/02/2008 at 11:12:16 PM

Hmmm. A woman is never a "widower", she is a widow. MEN are "windowers". Carry on. I too hope this article is in jest, although I believe that, sadly, it is not.

Posted on 11/19/2008 at 8:11:09 PM

This was an example of the worst husband this has nothing to do with being the perfect wife because you never can with a man like this.

Posted on 11/17/2008 at 6:11:19 AM

seeing some of the comments about this article makes me understand why the divorce rate is at its highest. i cant stop you wives from being lazy and not picking up after your family and yourselves but come on. i know it makes me feel good about everything when my house is clean and it puts me in a better mood. maybe its just me. i think it creates a better environment and puts everyone else in a good mood as well knowing they dont have to be scrubbing everytime they turn around.

Posted on 09/19/2008 at 3:09:04 AM

did a MAN type this out? i'm cleaning up after MY self not your dirty ass. and he tells a joke that i've already heard, i SHOULD tell him i've heard it already so he can go learn new ones. I'm sure he'd have more fun doing that anyways,

Posted on 09/15/2008 at 3:09:46 PM

Im a working mother now my husbands left work. He looks after the kids. I still have to do all the house work. And most of the cooking. I am independent but i still feel housework is a womans job. Men dont do the job as good as a woman and ofen woman have to go over what the husband has done to make the pefect result.

Posted on 09/09/2008 at 2:09:57 PM

BULL SHIT!BULL SHIT!!!!BULL SHIT!!!!!!!! This is the Most ignorant thing I have ever read. I am NOT someones maid.I am an Independent AND happily married woman who will leave a mess in the Kitchen if I damn well feel like it. I will NOT spend a great deal of timein MY life trying to be the perfect anything. I am going to live it and enjoy it.The laundry/dishes/little messes can wait until another day as I have more important things to do like...uhhh....live. How about every family member does one chore, that way instead of the chores taking four hours, they will only take one hour becaue four people will working together to get the chores done.THAT is what should be expected of a family. If someone allows their family to lay around watching the television, while allowing their MOTHER to do everything for them, then they are not even NEAR the perfect mother/wife. They are setting a HORRIBLE example for their family,especially their daughters.

Posted on 06/22/2008 at 11:06:36 AM

I agree with the spirit of the article. It sounds very much like Proverbs 31:10-31 which can be quite intimidating and is only meant as an example of attitudes and behaviors worthy of emulating. And for those commenters who have asked-What about the husbands-I'm sure SkyeDancer would not give them a pass to treat their wives disrespectfully-but that would be another article. As for the Bible-it also does not let husband's off the hook. The primary instructions for husbands is that they love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it. When husbands strive to work that out in daily life, wives will be treated like queens.

Posted on 05/17/2008 at 9:05:53 PM

Wow... what era do you live in? While it's all wonderful and good to be loving your husband so much that you would do anything to make him happy - it would only work out to be the 'perfect' marriage if he was the 'perfect' husband. After all, perfection goes together. Love is wonderful but I don't think it should be motivated by the fact that 'one day the only meals he will eat are through a straw' or that 'one day the bed will be empty'. What if the wife dies before him? My husband happens to be eight years younger than me... and yes, I earn more than him; so he isn't really out working late so that he can pay for his family's upkeep. I'm not saying he's not a good guy or that he doesn't deserve a good wife... just that there is no such thing as perfection, and there is no real reason to strive to achieve it.

Posted on 04/13/2008 at 12:04:13 AM

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