How to Build Your Child's Self Esteem

Most experts agree that children learn their behavior from the environment they are in. Therefore, in order for your child, to understand positive self esteem and self value, they need to experience it first hand from you. You can do this, by demonstrating to them you, yourself, have a strong sense of self worth and self esteem. Always speak about yourself in a positive way. Be sure to express your best attributes. In turn, this will allow your child to know that is okay for them to have pride in their skills, knowledge, talents, and abilities.

Another method which allows your child to learn self esteem and good self worth is honestly earned, positive praise from you. You should find at least one thing to praise them for every day. In fact, the best thing you could do is give your child a daily task. When your child completes the task, you can give them praise and tell them what a good job they did. They will learn that doing positive acts will get positive reinforcement from you. Children by nature want to please their parents.

If you notice that your child is experiencing sadness, anger, or depression, it is vital you communicate with them directly, openly, honestly, and above all, with patience. Actively listen to them without prejudice or interrupting. Don't criticize them. You may do more damage than good. Children often have a hard time understanding emotions and feelings.

If you take the time to interact with them, you will probably be able to help them sort through and get to the root of why they feel the way they do. Recommend that they engage in positive behavior and give them options to help solve their problems. Make sure that they understand they are more than welcome to come to you, if need be, for help. That way, if they come to you to talk, they will understand you will not be angry or punish them for how they are feeling