One Guy's View on Dating

How to Treat a Woman

Some guys have problems figuring out how to get a woman to either go out with them or sometimes even just talk to them. Most of the time it’s because the man (that’s you who is reading this) is either a complete jerk or not confident. Both of these characteristics are a turn off to women; ask women they will verify this fact. I also don’t like how men say women are so difficult to understand, its not that they are difficult to understand it’s that most men are stupid. Now just read this and listen and you might be able to get one of your dates to agree to a second date.

First if you are reading this thinking this guy doesn’t know anything, stop reading. I am trying to help men who might not be to keen about dating or just haven’t been successful in finding a good woman. This is not a dating almanac; I am just giving my point of view of ways I treated women that made them enjoy my company.

Let’s start by your appearance, now although a t-shirt and sweats may be the most comfortable outfit ever, it doesn’t attract a lot of women. Try a nice pair of jeans and a polo shirt for a change, or some nice slacks and a button down shirt. Women like a man who can dress himself. Now I am not saying Armani all the way but you are potentially trying to sell yourself to a woman. So do you think the woman is going to take the nicely displayed article (well dressed kept man) or the display that was thrown together in the dark (sweat pants and stained t-shirt)? Most women are not as shallow as men but appearance can make a lot of difference.

Confidence is the next step in the equation. Women love a confident man; don’t mix this with being cocky. There is a fine line between a confident man and a cocky jerk. When I think of the level of confidence I exude, I think that I want to present myself as in control of myself and my surroundings, but also respectful to those that are around me.