The First Born Child's Bill of Rights

Being a first-born child does not end when you turn 18 or when your siblings are old enough not to have to depend on you. You will always be your parent's first and all of the things you do will be firsts for them. This can make life hard but with a little guidance and know-how, you can calmly navigate these waters and save yourself some years in therapy. Additional therapy.

You are not your parents and your parents aren't you

I have heard it so many times. "When I was your age, I was/did/had/experienced/finished yada yada." And every time I hear it, I want to put my own eyes out. This little phenomenon did not occur until I became an adult and decided to do things my way. I am now subjected to this on an almost daily basis and it's becoming where I dread picking up the phone. I know that this is something that many first-born go through and it drives us crazy. Just try to remember that parents sometimes feel they are getting a second chance through their kids. They remember the many responsibilities that had at your age and it boggles their mind that you aren't doing the same. Just try to keep in mind that whatever you choose to do is totally up to you! Your parents may not like it or understand it but if you firmly yet respectfully hold your ground, they will come to respect your decisions and they may end up looking at you in admiration.

You have a right to a frivolous, exciting and duty-free life, if even for a moment.