I Think I've Fallen in Love

"We are pain and what cures pain, both. We are the sweet cold water and the jar that pours. I want to hold you close like a lute, so we can cry out with loving. Would you rather throw stones at a mirror? I am your mirror and here are the stones."

-13th century poet Runi

I'll never leave you

God put us together, forever

My angel

You're my best friend

and that's to the end

I'll die for you.

-Bobby Valentino's My Angel (never leave you)

They say falling in love and eating large amounts of chocolate feels the same but I don't think so. I've tried it and the only thing I felt after eating so much Hershey's, was sick and I never wanted to touch another piece of chocolate again. Being in love however, feels like I can't get enough of him. I never get tired of hearing his voice, looking at his picture or thinking about him. I have a glow about me now that women can connect with and men are drawn to. But how do you know when it's the real deal and not just infatuation or a phrase? How can you tell the difference between love and a deep crush? Well this guide will help you sort it out and maybe by the end of this article, you will know if it's real or not.

You become a better person.

When you fall in love you feel love for, not only him/her, but for yourself and the world around you. You come to know and except yourself better and that radiates in how you respond to everyday situations. You'll find yourself more forgiving, patient and giving. You don't let the little stuff get to you because you see the bug picture and realize that pettiness doesn't matter. You are able to transcend old limitations and are better able to connect and empathize. This leaves you more compassionate, wise and creative. In plain terms, you want everyone to feel as good as you do. You see love as an elixir that can truly heal the world.

You want to give more than you take.