Dating Tips for the Single Guy

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Every guy that I have known has always went through the dating ritual. Basically that is what it is - a ritual. From the time,when we are toddlers, we are taught the proper manners that are to be used in our everyday life. These manners carry over and are used time and again.


The dating ritual isn't earth science. However, there are many rules of etiquette that need to be followed. Some of my friends use to call it the hunt. Although, I myself could never compare dating with hunting, they do seem to parallel themselves. Here are some helpful tips that the single guy should be aware of.

The approach.

The approach is where a guy has to decide who he will date and how he will approach getting permission. This can be done in many ways. Letters, notes, phone calls, or a good friend can be helpful in setting up the date. However, the best approach is by simply asking. It is honest and straight forward. If you get shutdown, you can be disappointed, but don't get depressed over it. Rejection is a part of life.

Preparation.

The date has been set up now you have to prepare. You might ask your date what they like to do. If they don't give you any positive feedback, then you are on your own to set up the date itself. Never, blindside your date though. Always try to honestly let them know your plans, at least on the first date. You can pull surprises later on.

Make sure you set a date and time. Let the person know when you plan for the date to end. The end time can always be adjusted later by the two of you. If you need to make reservations, for any place in particular do so. Be sure your date knows the reservation time. This way they will be on time and or ready to go.

Once this is all set up, you're ready to prepare yourself. Before you leave for your date, make sure you do the following. Take a bath,groom yourself properly, use deodorant, and be sure your clothes are clean. Do not over dress or under dress. You don't need new clothes for a date. Just be sure they are clean. The same goes with socks. Sometimes socks can carry a very undesirable foot oder. Use Cologne but, don't over do it. Breath mints always come in handy,too.

The Date.

Dating is a ritual
 
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These are good tips. The one thing that always impressed me when my husband and I first started dating was how punctual he was. He was always precisely on time when we met up. Sophie

Posted on 02/09/2008 at 7:02:28 PM

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