How to Find Love Online Absolutely Free

There are countless Internet dating sites, even some free ones, I should know, I was a member of a few of them. The funny thing is, when I finally met my husband, he was not a member of any dating sites, and he found me absolutely free.

Since then, I have seen a lot of guys trying to pick up women in various chat rooms and websites. I have often offered them this advice. Now, I offer it to you:

Do what my husband did when he found me!

It is so simple and it worked!

Are you ready for this? If you don't already have Yahoo Messenger, you will need to download it on your computer. This is free. Simply go to http://www.yahoo.com and find the link for the messenger and download it.

Once you have yahoo messenger you will need to make sure your profile is filled out and includes a nice recent picture of yourself. Many people are turned off when someone chats with them and they click "view profile" only to find the person has not included any information about themselves.

It is very important that you are completely honest. If you are not honest you are not going to find the person you are seeking in your life. The Internet is so perfect because you can weed people out quickly and not waste each other's time getting to know someone only to find out that it will not work out.

For example: I am a non-smoker and I cannot stand to be around cigarettes. This is a very important thing to include in your profile if you are single and looking so you will not be bothered by smokers who want to date you. Be sure to include any information that lets people know what you do want, and what you don't want.

Once your profile is perfected you are ready to find some candidates. Simply type into your browser, "http://members.yahoo.com/" and you are there! Do not use the search link you see on this page. Click advanced search, and skip the first four choices. You should be at Keyword or Phrase.

Be sure and use a keyword that is important to you. My husband likes to play games so he was looking for someone to play games with, so he used, "Games" for his keyword. Just for fun I tried "Associated Content" and Michigan and found 15 people with Associated Content on their profiles in Michigan.