It Might Be a Mistake to Live Together Before Getting Married

Cohabiting or Sex Partners

Countless times, I’ve wondered and pondered over how married couples make hectic love in the night, and still have enough stamina to go to office the next morning. Do they perhaps have some kind of energising drugs they take? I mean, you see them looking quite refreshed, as if they spent the whole night sleeping. But we all know they didn’t! They must have done it two or three times before cockcrow. 

Take a look at me. Once I get home and jump into bed, my eyes would not flutter until the next morning. If I sleep that much just because of tiredness from my job, then I wonder what it would be like, to come home tired and spend the rest of the night banging.

I bet, before the end of the month, my file with the admin department, would be bursting at the seam with queries. I would not only go late to the office but would probably need fire-fighters to wake me. 

And that is why I respect live-in lovers. When I dated, I dreaded spending a night with my man. I always feared he might see the opportunity as one to whack me left, centre and forward! Imagine going home with a sore honey pot. If you guys have been doing it once, don’t be surprised if he wants to go for three rounds. I can feel goose pimples over my body as I imagined how long the night would be. 

Living together with a lover is not funny at all! Though many feel it’s the height of life. Many call it trial marriage.

They fooled themselves that they want to know what it would be like to be married to their spouse. I remember a babe in my compound that suddenly got it into her stupid head to move out of her elder brother’s room, right into that of her lover’s, who, also incidentally, stays in the same compound. She could not be up to 22. Before long, she had started loosing weight. I can guess why! It’s not easy, I tell you!