How to Get a Date in 5 Simple Steps - Some Tips for Men

I kept a diary all this while to remind myself of the various dating techniques passed down by my elder brother of 8 years - he's married by the way and was a babe magnet back then! It all started when I got interested in a girl in my high school. I didn't have the courage to ask her out - what do you expect from a 15 year old guy in high school?

I have thoughts running over my head each time I got near to her. Goose pimples started to appear on my face and I simply froze. I didn't know what to do so I asked my brother for a little advice on how to get a date with this girl - like I said my brother was a babe magnet and can get 3 dates a day 5 times a week. He was a wild horse of the 70's. I know that it might sound silly writing this over in Associated Content, but heck I've been using it for over 10 years and it works - at least it work for me!

Here goes.

Action
Yes this sounds basic right? Action, action and action! Most of the time we always brag that we can do so many infinite and impossible things in our life, but as usual, we lack action! Of course dating a girl requires action and the action requires you to actually ask her out. You might freeze up when asking the girl of your dreams for a date. I have this problem in the past and it was hard to overcome it. Usually when we get close to a girl that we like, it seems like there's nothing or no thoughts in our head.

For your information, this is bad. To overcome this problem, think of the girl as your sister or better yet your mother - You don't have problems speaking to your sister or your mother right? Just relax and talk to her!

Asking someone out for a date doesn't require rocket science or an expensive car. Get to know her and ask her about her interests. It would help if you are an all rounder, meaning that you know lots of stuff, even women's stuff. This way she'll be attracted to you and you will have something in common.

When you do have something in common, just look for some excuse to ask her out. If you just met her or just got to know her, she might be a little uncomfortable going out with you. In that case, look for an excuse like