How to Help Your Children Learn to Drive - 9 Tips to Make it Easier

By Carmen Isom, published Mar 02, 2007
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Your son or daughter has just turned fifteen and their hands are itching to get on that wheel. They're eager, excited and they certainly don't want their parents getting in their way. At this time they are vulnerable but don't want to show you that. Teen angst is getting in the way.

It's probably the worst time for parents and teenager to bond because the teens are at the age where they want nothing to do with their parents and parents can be going through a midlife crisis. But driving is something most everyone has to do and most everyone wants to do. And what better person to teach your child that you?

But pride and arrogance often gets in the way teaching and learning in this arena. Sometimes parents aren't good teachers because they've been doing it all their lives and expect the children to learn too quickly. Sometimes the children aren't good learners because they've got it in their heads that they know more than you do. What's the solution? Here are a few tips and guidelines for parents to ensure that you and your teen will be able to have a good experience when learning how to drive.

Tip Number One: Congratulate your teen. They're fifteen!

Make a big deal out of being able to drive, becoming an adult. Most teenagers act like children because they're treated that way. They can't do this, they can't do that. But driving is something that will be coming up in the next year and they will have to learn. It's part of growing up and being an adult.

Tip Number Two: Get them the test books on their birthday.

They need materials. Don't leave it to them to go to the store or the DMV to get books. Let them know you've been thinking about them. Let them know that you really care and want them to really have this in their lives. A teenager can sometimes feel that their parents are so caught up in work and significant others that they are forgotten about. But giving them a driving book on their birthday lets them know that realize they are becoming adults as much as they do.

Tip Number Three: Tell them when you're free and offer help on the tests in the book.

Takeaways
  • Most teenagers act like children because they're treated that way.
  • Let them go at their own pace.
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