Signs that Your Lover or Spouse is Cheating on You

By Dawn Fuller, published Mar 06, 2007
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Cheating spouses/partners has become more of an occurrence in today's society. If you think your partner is cheating, then most likely they are. There are signs that will determine if your lover is cheating on you.

One sign that may begin accruing is that your spouse or partner will start becoming more attentive to your needs. They may have been lacking in this before and then all of a sudden starting doting on you and showering you with affection. The reason they display this behavior is because of the guilt they are feeling since they are doing the cheating. This is usually a sign that starts at the beginning of an affair and will diminish as the affair continues.

If your partner or lover begins showering you with gifts, when before they didn't, this could be another sign they are having an affair. Again they do this because they are feeling guilty. Showering you with gifts will make the cheating party feel better and helps them alleviate some of the guilt they are feeling.

Another determination for women is the old faithful women's intuition. If your lover's actions are causing a gut feeling in your stomach telling you something isn't right, then it's probably not. Pay attention to your instincts and don't ignore them. Ignoring them is only blinding you to the truth of what is going on. You know your lover's habits and routines better than anyone, so be suspicious when these things change.

A possible sign to that your mate is cheating is that they will often pick fights with you. By doing this, it gives your lover a reason to storm off and gives them the opportunity to meet their lover. They may also pick these fights with you because they are experiencing a lot of mixed emotions about betraying you.

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At one time my mate cheated on me, because we were going through alot of difficulties about me losing our first baby...He turned to other women because he didn't know how to deal with it or me...The women would come pick up from work, he moved in with one, and he did things with her and others when actually he should've been dong with me...I have not been having any problems with him about any women or lying...Lately, I still watch my back but I do not think he is cheating...I have my eyes open...I pay attention alot more...Now we have a beautiful baby girl, almost two months old, and the relationship is going well...We are actually talking about getting married this year..We are putting in work every single day to make our r/s work...This is his very last chance to prove to me and our family that this is what he wants...I can say I am happy...Everyone deserves a second chance depending on the situation...Dont get me wrong, it is still hard...we have been together almost three years...

Posted on 10/07/2007 at 10:10:00 AM

 
At one time my mate cheated on me, because we were going through alot of difficulties about me losing our first baby...He turned to other women because he didn't know how to deal with it or me...The women would come pick up from work, he moved in with one, and he did things with her and others when actually he should've been dong with me...I have not been having any problems with him about any women or lying...Lately, I still watch my back but I do not think he is cheating...I have my eyes open...I pay attention alot more...Now we have a beautiful baby girl, almost two months old, and the relationship is going well...We are actually talking about getting married this year..We are putting in work every single day to make our r/s work...This is his very last chance to prove to me and our family that this is what he wants...I can say I am happy...Everyone deserves a second chance depending on the situation...Dont get me wrong, it is still hard...we have been together almost three years...

Posted on 10/07/2007 at 10:10:00 AM

 
if you feel that he is then it is true because i'm going through the same thing his cell phone bills have a number i donot know he has called this person several times in a day his cell phone is always locked but he can go through mine i have called the number but she says she does know him he dailed the wrong number i said 6 tmes in 1 day i questioned him and he said she was a old friend i said she can be your new friend i left now he wants me back i said no

Posted on 09/11/2007 at 6:09:00 PM

 
How do i suspect that my boyfriend is cheating when he says that he isnt but i feel like he is

Posted on 08/28/2007 at 12:08:00 PM

 
Great Article Dawn. You thought of some things I hadn't even thought of in my article

Posted on 03/08/2007 at 5:03:00 PM

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