10 Signs You Shouldn't Marry Him

Tieing the knot and becoming a wife is a huge step in a young woman's life. It means commitment, love, and trust. But, what about those women who are great people but are stuck with someone who is not good enough for them? What if the woman works, goes to school, takes care of the child, and pays for everything while the man gets in trouble and contributes nothing? If this woman still wants to become married she may be crazy. She may also be in love, which causes a woman to deal with countless troubles, lies, and arguments before seeing the light. It is saddening to see a woman do all of the work while being run down by a man who does not want to grow up, keep promises, or keep a job. Many women deal with it only to find themselves feeling trapped in a life they really did not want. Then they must try to get out, which would have been much easier before marriage. Here are ten signs that you as a woman should look for before deciding to get married. If your wedding date is on its way and these ten things apply, you have some serious decision making to do.

Number one: Your fiance stays out all night.
If he does this and you do not know what exactly he is doing, ask questions. Where were you? Why didn't you come home last night? If he does not have a good answer then you should be angry. I would be anyway. You have no clue where he was, what he was doing, or who he was with. Can you trust him to tell you the truth? If he is the kind of guy who stays out all night he probably is not the type who can be trusted. You should not have to worry all night about where your fiance is. That is not what a relationship is about.

Number two: Your fiance lies.
If he lies to you all the time and you know he does, why do you put up with it? Someone who lies to you now will lie to you forever. He most likely will not change. It may not be worth the hassle. A man who loves you is supposed to be honest and true. When he says his vows, will they be lies too? You will never know! It is something you will end up worrying about every time he tells you something. You will worry while he is at the store, while he is at work, and while he is out with friends. Once a liar always a liar in my book.