Foreplay: What Every Woman Wants

It is a well-known fact that women want, or rather need, foreplay. A woman's body needs a little bit more coaxing than a man's body does. Therefore, foreplay is as important to women as sex is to men. Women enjoy sex more emotionally as well as physically and it helps us reach an orgasm that much faster when we've had a good amount of foreplay beforehand. However, since men don't realize this because they're so focused on their "goal" they neglect to recognize their significant other's wants and needs which could lead to resentment and arguments. These things don't have to happen as long as you appreciate the fact that foreplay is a very important part of every relationship.

In my opinion, the whole relationship (except actual sex) is foreplay. Every word and every gesture in a relationship can be an act of foreplay that can stimulate your wife for hours, days or weeks. It's quite simple; women want to feel special. When is the last time you heard a woman say, "I think it's hot when my man looks at other women" or "My man loves me so much that when he comes home and eats my cooking, he belches and passes out in front of the television"?

There are so many ways to make your lady feel special. It may cost you money or it can simply cost you some time to think of ways to show your wife you care and respect her. When a woman feels special, sexy, wanted, and loved she's more apt to do more things for you, which could mean more action in the bedroom at night.

Holding Hands

Holding hands isn't just for high school or college students, nor is it just reserved for new lovers. I find it so endearing when I see an elderly couple holding hands. You can actually see the love between them in that small gesture alone. Holding hands with your lady shows her that you're proud to have her by your side and you want everyone to know it. To women it's a way to feel connected to you and a sign of love and commitment.

Studies have even shown that holding hands can reduce stress. I personally love when my husband holds my hand but then adds in a hand massage. It feels so good and it means more to me because I don't have to ask him to do it; he knows automatically how much I enjoy it and just does it.