Establishing a Successful Breastfeeding Relationship

With all the horror stories floating around about mothers who were unable to breastfeed, many expectant mothers find themselves worrying about whether or not they will be successful in breastfeeding their new babies. Most of the problems that mothers encounter stem from lack of information about breastfeeding. Don't let misinformation undermine your chances at having a successful breastfeeding relationship.

Breastfeeding success tip #1: Nurse in the delivery room
Studies have proven that the sooner a baby is put to breast after birth, the easier it is to establish the breastfeeding relationship. Do not allow your baby to be immediately whisked away to be weighed, measured, bathed, and inspected. All of those things can wait. The nurses and doctors are in a hurry to get things over with so they can go on about their day, but your baby's well-being is more important. Put your foot down, and get your labor coach's support in this matter. Unless baby seems to have a physical problem, there is no reason not to nurse immediately after birth. The baby may not be hungry, but her instinct to nurse is strong, and you want to encourage that instinct as soon as possible.

Breastfeeding success tip #2: Avoid nipple substitutes
This means no pacifiers or bottles, especially during your hospital stay after giving birth. Many babies can take a pacifier or bottle at a young age with no problems - but for others, introducing a nipple substitute can create a nipple preference, often called nipple confusion. Nipple confusion is one of the biggest causes of breastfeeding failure. If at all possible, wait at least 6 weeks before introducing any kind of mom substitute. If you must introduce a bottle, look for one with a slow-flow nipple. A faster flow will give milk more easily than the breast, and baby will likely get lazy and not want to nurse. Better yet, use a cup or syringe to administer expressed breast milk to your baby. This will eliminate the risk of nipple confusion.